I cannot get on chat in ANY variation. It keeps trying to load then says 'rejected'. Kind of a metaphor for most of us.

Minneapolis is a major city. Many major cities have jack off groups. Try Googling "Minneapolis jacks" and other combinations of similar wording. You may find a jack off club.

It is SO easy. Just relax and let it happen. Use some nice lube, take your time, enjoy the experience. Start out with some casual conversation and move into the, "Have you ever thought about...?" questions. It's nice to hold another guy's cock in your hand and gradually stroke him till he cums.

It's really fun. Lube both cocks well and experiment with different positions and rubbing different areas. Feels better than you might expect.

Lots of married guys are curious about this experience. The first problem is that they are afraid that their wives will find out. The other problem is finding a safe place to meet. Most married guys cannot meet at home if they are afraid the wife will find out. Meeting in cars or adult book stores adds a lot of pressure and fear that ruins the experience. Ideally the experience would be just a couple of guys meeting to watch some porn, start stroking, then experimenting with each other. A relaxed and no pressure experience, which it is if circumstances are right. Most of my experiences were very nice with a few exceptions, including an unexpected number of no-shows even though I could provide a safe and comfortable place.

My bi experimentation started later in life. My wife was very understanding, although she had no interest in watching or participating. She asks only that I be careful and avoid the risks of anonymous meetings, book stores, etc.

Married to first wife for 30 years. She never would so I found a girlfriend who would. Divorced her, second wife is much better but men DO give better head.

Blood pressure and heart medicines can seriously depress not just your libido but also your ability to get and keep an erection. They can destroy your sex life.

Many large cities (and some smaller) have JO clubs. Pick a larger city near you and try Googling "[city]jacks" and see what you get. If that has no results, Google "masturbation groups", etc. and see what comes up. Don't expect there to be a lot, but you may find something of interest.

Why not approach it the same way you did when you were younger? If you have a buddy that you think would be interested, get together, watch some porn, and have a few drinks. Ask him if he minds if you take yours out to rub it and see how he reacts. If he agrees, invite him to do the same. Once things are heated up, make your move.

Frot is great! I was amazed how good it felt. If you get the chance, do try it.

When I am jacking off another guy, I love to experiment to see what sounds I can get him to make. Moaning and hissing are fun, but some begging and pleading is fun also. The cumshot is always best when the noises are the loudest.

I have found a regular bud from Silverdaddies. Lots of guys on Squirt.org also, locals by zip code. Problem is finding one who can host. Married guys usually cannot host so that leaves renting a room, adult bookstores, and car meets as choices.

I was about 13 and knew nothing. I had rubbed my cock with a soapy hand in the bath a few times and it felt pretty good, but I never had a cum. One night I was in bed just playing with it and it got hard. It felt good and I kept going. Suddenly my body started to spasm and I thought I was peeing the bed. I nearly passed out it hit so hard. I went to the bathroom and cleaned up as best I could, scared to death about what had happened. When I went to school the next day and told a friend what had happened, he told me that if I put that stuff in a girl, she would have a baby. My confusion was magnified. I experimented a few times until I learned what would happen, then I became more comfortable with it.

I was about 13 and knew nothing. I had rubbed my cock with a soapy hand in the bath a few times and it felt pretty good, but I never had a cum. One night I was in bed just playing with it and it got hard. It felt good and I kept going. Suddenly my body started to spasm and I thought I was peeing the bed. I nearly passed out it hit so hard. I went to the bathroom and cleaned up as best I could, scared to death about what had happened. When I went to school the next day and told a friend what had happened, he told me that if I put that stuff in a girl, she would have a baby. My confusion was magnified. I experimented a few times until I learned what would happen, then I became more comfortable with it.