I believe this is as silly question, and I believe you already know the answer. But..... if she does not masturbate, she is dead. As for you..... I think you just want to get a response from us ladies. Enjoy!

I am 69, and I still enjoy both.

What do you consider.... a lot? I am a two to three times a week woman.

I do, I enjoy my breast, and nipples especially played with during sex. That is just my personal preference, and does not mean all woman do.

I was fortunate to find a man who is very well endowed this past summer. The first time I saw him, without clothes on, I remember thinking to myself....... OMG, it is going to hurt! When he did finally penetrate me, he was gentle, and entered me slowly. But... it did hurt, but it was a good pain in away. I have to admit, I had never experienced that feeling before, but I did enjoy that moment together.

He is a member of this sight, and is the one who asked me to join. So..... he knows who he is. (Wink)

Yes!

Early in my marriage, my husband and I talked openly about the kind of sex we liked to do, and the possibilities of other things. Anyway, I knew he masturbated, and he knew I did as well. Many times, when he was needing to ejaculate, usually in bed, in the night. He always has a thing for a younger, sexy, local news woman he would masturbate to, while watching the news. He would masturbate, and I would be between his legs, massaging his balls, and a finger up his butt, also massaging his prostate. My.. my... how he would explode! Messy... messy, usually all over me. I got turned on by watching him masturbate, and he always took care of me afterwards.

I would have to say that I have thought about doing that, but being older, and the ole body parts have seemed to have slipped south..... so to speak. I am not sure if a co-worker saw me, without my face in the picture, and would say how ugly I looked. Please don not take this as I am uncomfortable out of my clothes, but men I have been with know me better on a personal side too....... the stranger does not.

In a nutshell..... I, at my age, could be open to it. Never say never.

Fingers!

I see nothing wrong with that at all. Also, it tastes good.

For me personally, I see it as just a sexual thing, and as long as it does not lead to a romantic thing. My husband used to watch the sexy, local news lady at night on TV, and masturbate. I never considered him cheating on me. But..... my husband ALWAYS took care of my needs!

May I ask what you classify as big? For me, the biggest I have had is around eight inches.

I am 69 years old, and I believe I still have a healthy sex drive!