Sometimes we go to a conference and miss and entire session, because wanking in our hotel room is higher priority.

Rick used to. He wore shorts to class. Pulled his bone out a leg hold and rubbed till it squirted on his leg, down the seat, onto the floor. The teacher never caught him, but you could smell it. Kids, even girls saw it. I remember a couple times hearing a girl say, "Oh gross!!"

I had the unfortunate experience to know several of these people. 3 women and 1 man that I learned to know fairly well. I knew them because every one identified as a victim and hated what they were doing, but didn't know how to get out of it. They were carefully and threateningly "managed." To see them on the street, they looked like normal if unusually attractive and rather troubled people. Inside, all were absolute emotional wrecks.

None of them were able to relate with the opposite sex. What they did before a camera was a skilled act, but they hated every minute of it. None were in a sexual relationship of any kind. None considered what they did on cam to be sex and certainly not pleasurable. No woman ever experienced an actual orgasm during filming. Men did, but it took many tries and a lot of medication, because sex on cam with re-shot scenes is a grueling impossible task. None described such orgasm as pleasant--usually it is painful and unpleasurable (image what it would take to have a bad orgasm---they manage).

All of these people were known for making public statements of their pleasure, satisfaction and good treatment on the job. Everyone said it was a lie, a script they were paid and threatened to say.

Those 4 that I knew well, know that world and all 4 say this: Everyone who gets into the industry gets in without a clue of what really lies ahead. Every one is a wounded animal inside. None of them would ever do in real life what they do on cam. Its all a choreographed act, one that leaves all of them with physical damage and emotional damage and diseases to carry the rest of their lives.

This is probably not what many of you want to hear. I am sure some will mock and scoff--but regardless, the above is true. I suspect down in your heart, you already knew it was true.

Once at Kennedy Meadows in Southern California I was camped out in a campground. Next to me was a tent of a young couple. They got noisier and noisier and somehow managed to knock their tent down. that stopped them for briefly, but then they carried on and i could see fabric and tent poles wiggling harder and harder and then the wonderful climax with appropriate noises.

I tried to just mind my own business.

A while later the girl emerged, came over to my picnic table and just chatted awhile, explained they were on their honeymoon. I have no idea if they realized I had witnessed their lovemaking. I met the guy later as well. A real lice young couple- I hope they did well.

I jacked off for days about that.

I capture it in jars, ferment it carefully, bottle it and sell it at a roadside stand as a very effective aphrodisiac.

Yeah. In Mrs. Casper's hedge. A friend and I were playing, got this idea, ended up buried in this tall hedge between our place and Mrs. Caspers. I don't know how she sneaked up on us, but she did, and then turned the garden hose full on us.

One of my favorite things to JO to. The recent batch seem almost what...too fat? Still I jerk.

We can explore the idea. I lead a busy life and don't always have a lot of free time, but I'd love to explore with you.

Jimmy

For those of us who are tame, gentlemen, married, families, with reputations to preserve, how do we meet? We dream of meeting, but have to be extremely discreet, safe, secure, anonymous. The risk isn't with the pleasure. Many gay men tend to get quickly impatient. They just want their sexual release and to to run. If they are out of teh closet, they already have little to lose.

For the rest of us, we need better methods of meeting.

I am here and willing...but it might take time and patience and some relationship building.

I don't think its fair. Uncut guys dicks look bigger even if they are not. And they measure out longer if you count the foreskin.

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I know several who do a fine job of it.

I suggest 60 seconds of silence--hands off. Then we have to get on with it.

If Ryisco's idea of showing respect is to stop jerking, then we should allow him/her that privilage. Everyone grieves differently.

What would Carrie want you to do? Duh...
Carrie

Mine can talk. Your's can't?

Have fleshlight. Well worn and frayed. Used well over 2000 Times. Still works fine. Am giving it up for wife. Willing to make deal.