Like the guys before me said- I think you should see a doctor. I disagree with Jusce though that itis likely a "minor bleed like a nose bleed". The nose bleeds because there are fragile sheets of bone in the sinus called turbinates that crack easily and cause bleeding. There is no reason why the testicles, penis, prepuce, etc should have blood. When blood is ejaculated it is typically a sign of an STI, a kidney stone lodged in the urethra, a UTI, a bruise in the testicles (get hit in the nuts recently?) or cancer. I would not fool around-- go see a doctor soon.

Ha.. this reminds me of the WIll and Grace episode where luke perry was the "H.G.N"... The rarest of all gay subspecies-- the hot gay nerd! ( I love that show). At any rate- as far as fictitious goes-- I kinda find Peter Parker (or atleast tobey mcquire) to be really hot.... and in real life.. Ben is so HOT!!! (there ya go)

ares it almost sounds to me as if you really like the idea of it. Reading your post it is almost as if you are gloating... just come out and tell him "i dont wanna fuck you anymore".

Shirt,
I have had alot of the same experiences. Now I am a chat moderator-- so you see where it got me... But- i did for years have the same problem. I never acted on the stuff in real life-- but online I let my imagination go wild. After i was done I would feel repulsed and remorseful. I am pretty sure that the feelings were because I was afraid that I was "becoming gay". I have since embraced my experiences here as exactly what they are-- Masturbation fun. Thats it. It has taken me a while to realize that I am not interested in the real hookups- I just come here to get off. It is not like there are alot of places online where a guy can go talk like this with girls. Even most of the girls here are likely guys that are ashamed to admit they want to talk to other guys. So i figure-- as long as it is just for masturbation- why does it matter? I still think about girls, i still hookup with girls (and the equipment works properly in both instances-- just as it does here). But- I do not see myself ever following through witha guy. So- I am comfortable now realizing that coming to jackinchat is an outlet for my sexual frustration-- but it is not my "sexlife". I have one outside of chat too. Think of it like this-- Have you ever jacked off to pictures of an absolutely unattainable girl (come on- i know you had to have a celebrity that you jacked of too). You know you will never have a chance of sleeping with her--but you imagine it and get off to it. Same here-- you know you will never do these things-- but you use them just to get off... Hope this helps. I think that alot of guys here go through the same thing you do-- and its just a matter of accepting something new, different, and obviously exciting.

are you trying to connect through the xxxchatters website or through JCjava? IF you are having trouble with xxxchatters- try to get on through the jcjava application(IE-- on the left where it says "quick chat launch". Also- if your trouble is here- let us know that as well. By trying to connect through each site- we will know if it is on YOUR end, or on our end. Additionally, you can try to download an IRC client- such as mIRC. in the line for typing at the bottom- type /server fukq.org Then-- once you log on to server- join the room by typing /join #jackinchat.

I think one thing that is important to point out is that the moderators are not what makes the room boring. We are what- 5 out of 80-100 people? How can 5 people ruin the room and make it boring? The problem is that people do not want to chat when they come there- they want to get off- plain and simple. I dont get off when im there- so typically i will talk to people. But- not everyone is that way. Users of the room have no one to blame but themselves- because you get out of the room what you put in. Additionally, every chatter has equal "blame" because very few people try to strike up conversation in the main room. Also- if you dont like it- and it sucks so bad-- then uh-- Dont come... its pretty simple really

To each his own.. Though your post makes me feel dirty and disgusting. No- after I got a spanking- I was not turned on- I was screaming and crying and begging for my mother to stop-- and NOT because it felt good

I love sue johanson. kinda scary having a grandmother describe giving a blowjob in detail- but she would offer great advice to you about this.

I think you guys are missing something here. You can talk about desensitizing, etc. But this is almost textbook for "over masturbation sydrome". It is a psychological problem that effects alot of men (Anna-- back me up here- i know you learned it in school- it has another psychology name). What happens is this- you masturbate for so long and become so efficient at it- that you cant perform with a woman. It isnt that you cant feel it, or that you dont like it- it is all in your head. Psychologically- you have trained yourself to think: Masturbation=orgasm. You are going to have to retrain yourself to think that mastrubation/sex/oralsex all = orgasm. Since it is psychological- You should try to go without masturbating. WHen you get the urge after 2-3 days and you swear you cant wait another men-- Have sex- DONT masturbate. This will help you to get off with sex- which will eventually retrain you to be able to equate sex with orgasms mentally.
ALSO- you really really should try to get some professional help. Psychologists deal with this all the time and they know what you should do. It is seriously one of the most common psychological disorders in men under 25- so DONT FEEL STUPID talking to a professional.
You can ask for help here all you want-- but the people here (myself included) are only suggestions-- we arent experts. Seriously- please ask for some help- as there are documented cases of men who have this problem for life because they dont seek the help they need.

well- for starters- I was not looking for anything to do. I went in to see what it was about because I had heard about them here... I got no desire to go anywhere with a glory hole. I prefer to have my sexual contact be with people I know... and not through a wooden wall. I wasnt going looking for sex-- just wanted to see what all the hype was about... and I must say- It didnt impress me

I had my first experience with one today.

Went to the porn store- saw the sign that read "mini movies". I Followed the sign to a long hallway that was lined on either side by about 10 or so stalls. Each stall had a door on it that resembled a bathroom stall door -only it went full length. You could hear the sound of about 3-4 pornos coming from the occupied stalls.
WHen you get to the stall, the first thing you notice is the LARGE sign on each door that reads "ONLY 1 PERSON PER BOOTH!!". When you go in- you lock the door behind you and the video screen turns on. The bench folds down from one wall and supports itself on the opposite wall. The entire booth is about the size of an airplane bathroom.
Once you deposit your money (0.25 a minute- if you pay in quarters- you have to pay 1 minute at a time) or you can pay with a Bill- but you dont get change- so If you put a 20 in there- enjoy your 80mins of porn- or you wont get money back.
There are a few buttons on there-- basically a volume button and then some arrows that allow you to scroll through the movies. You get the scene wherever it is -- not from the beginning.
Thing is- it is CLEARLY marked that you "can not perform lude acts in the stalls- anyone caught having sex, sexual contact, or masturbating will be turned over to the police". I dont see how 2 people could even fit in there. Not to mention- there were no trash cans, no paper towels, nothing.
Remembering what I read here in the past- people made it sound like these booths were a jackers paradise. Set up for you with a movie, lube, cumrags, etc. I just cant believe that any of them are different from these. Im pretty sure that these were the "standard". IF so-- How can ANYONE jackoff in that kind of environment? I was repulsed by the whole thing... from the cheap porn... to the stinch of musk... to the unidentified stain on the floor (or atleast im pretending it was unidentified). I mean- I guess that some people are desperate for a good jack-- but you know- Buy one of the 9.99 DVD porns, take it home, watch it alone, and jackoff in a safe/clean environment!

They seem to be all over limewire, etc. Check one of the fileshare places

In theory-- cutting the suspensory ligament would allow the penis to hang lower. Once it heals in this "cut" position it will give the illusion that the penis is longer. IT would be the same as if you were to push back on your pubic area and measure from the length of the base "if you didnt have any fat or muscle over it". So- you arent going to gain much more penis. It is a risky surgery and there are definitely some potential complications- including the possibility of making erections more difficult to attain... if at all...

Id stay away from it-- Take what God gave you--and make it work. Chances are the only one who really cares what size it is -- is you!

The Fan question tricked me at first- but it didnt ask for a ceiling fan. Ceiling fans- you can change the direction for the season you are in. I think it just meant a regular oscillating box fan-- in which case the direction is the same way all the time.

I got 20... Surprising. Who the hell cares about campbells soup cans anyway? Some of these are argumentative. I mean- there are really more than 1 answer. For example- the venetian blind question. The old style-- with the rod on the left opened the slats. However, many of them being made now-- the same cord does both functions-- way over my head to work too!