Love various genres of erotic literature. Although when it comes to visual stimulation it is only really amateur or bondage stuff that I am able to get off on.

I like the thought of men masturbating over me, but seeing it in the flesh kinda kills the romance.

The only type of porn that I have ever really been able to get off to while watching alone is bondage and S&M type stuff. I put this down to the fact that it is a bit diffrent to the normal constant penetration camera angle stuff, which I often find more cringy than arousing if I watch it alone. I will often watch 'regular' porn with my husband during sex but it doesn't really do much for me.

Some good erotic literature on the other hand, I can enjoy for hours regardless of genre.

I enjoy long solo sessions when I get the oppertunity which involves edging at times.

Only problem for me is that I prefer clitoral stimulation when masturbating which causes me to become quite sore after a certain period of time. This, as you can imagine, is quite frustrating!!

I have absolutely no idea why, but the thought of this arouses me.

My husband and I are quite open and relaxed when it comes to masturbation. So on the occasions where he's in the mood and i'm not, it is relatively common practice for him to sort himself out in bed next to me. During which time he will often give me a grope with his spare hand to speed things up a bit. Which, although I wouldn't like anyone else doing to me, is something I quite enjoy from a loving standpoint.

Now I don't get any sexual gratification from this and it is more of a 'physical' than 'visual' aid, but i'm sure you get my point.

Fingers!

I find that my alone time is either done in a bit of a rush (which means there is no time for toys). Or I do the complete oposite and have a good couple of hours to myself. The reason I prefer to stick with my fingers here is that my masturbation revolves mainly around clitoral stimulation which, when in contact with anything vibrating for long periods of time, can become quite numb and sometimes even sore. Which obviously makes the whole thing much less onjoyable.

I have a real thing for this woman. Have done for years.

My partner and I have a couple of friends that we swing/swap with on occasion. And I have noticed that when the sex has finished and we're lounging around on the sofa/bed etc, that we tend to casually play with ourselves while we make small talk, which is something that i've started to find quite hot.

Much prefer written stuff to videos. I love to have a good hour or so getting lost in some literature!