Without a doubt Katie, she just appeals to me more. Jessica is hot but Katie is the one I'd marry and carry around ALL day haha

It is a very sexy thought and something I am very open to and hoping to do sometime with the right person.

I wouldn't just want to give a hand job, I would want to suck as well, I don't necessarily need to be sucked but I do openly want to suck a throbbing hard cock.

I am curious and couldn't look for anything beyond sexual fun with a guy but I'm very very curious. I wank all the time and just would love to experience making another guy cum, sucking a cock, swallowing a load as its shot down my throat and even take a facial. I get turned on at the thought (don't know if I could do it all in reality) but after watching porn, I guess I want to see what its like to be the slut...kind of

I'm more looking at the ass and face first, I'll glance at the tits but I'm not a tit guy, though sometimes a cleavage is enough! My attention is usually always on the face and ass. I imagine the mouth wrapped around my cock and the face covered with some steamy hot cum, I glance at the ass, imagine feeling it, fucking it...hard just thinking about it

The redhead, she's just beautiful. Either her or the one at the end on the right. Two very fine women!

I jut read your post and felt I had to say something.

Sexuality isn't as simple as it seems and there is a lot of discovery around it. You can jack off to women or guys. You don't have a problem with getting it up with a guy but do with a girl.

I'd like to focus on that for a moment. It isn't necessarily as simple as 'not getting it up so must be gay.' There are underlying issues, it could be anxiety, it could be anything. Nobody here can say what you are and its wrong for someone to say 'go with what makes you hard.' That puts a far too simplistic view on it.

Like I said, nobody here can do much to help you seek answers. We can only try to through questions out there and hope YOU find the answer. I'm not trying to rant or come off as aggressive, but its a complex matter that I need to be straight to the point with.

You have gone as far as getting with a girl despite whether you get it up or not. To me, that suggests that you have an attraction to her. What makes you go home with a girl in the first place? Are you doing it because it feels right? Is there an attraction? Do you just like her company and can't say no? Do you see how this gets a little more complex? In my opinion, you need to think about how you end up struggling to go there. Are you putting too much pressure on yourself?

You say you can happily go along with guys, now again I assume there is a physical attraction and honestly I can't comment much on that because you're happy with it.

Sexuality is more than sex. We live in a world where sexuality defines sex, but just because a girl will have sex with a girl, that doesn't necessarily mean she's bisexual. I'd say she's comfortable with sex enough to explore and enjoy it. Sexuality is actually more lifestyle than sex. To me, sexuality is defined as being attracted to, and being able to connect on a deeper level, I.e. Me being able to love another man as my life partner. If I have sex with a guy, I would enjoy it and do it again but that just means I'm open minded. Without being able to love him and spend my life with him, I can't be bi. Does that make sense? Bisexuality is being able to spend your life with either a male or a female, being able to distinguish them and being happy.

These labels aren't something I feel you should care too much about. I'm merely trying to explain the difference between being open minded and bisexual or gay, in the hope that you can relate it to your life.

My real advice is, why get yourself down about it when you enjoy what you do? Don't change anything, be yourself and enjoy the road of discovery. I realise that you may be worried about life in the future but live for now, not the future. You have a lit to discover and a lot needs to be asked and answered in your own head.

Whether you're bi, gay or open minded, just enjoy it. Things will become clearer as you go along, sometimes it just takes time

I've only just got into this and I find myself doing it whenever I have a few minutes to myself. only fingers and I haven't used lubes yet but I can comfortably fit in two fingers. I've still to develop a technique but its beck ming an addiction

I would do it and I would think for me personally that I'd prefer it with us both on our sides.


I've never done anything with a guy, I do think about it and I have a 'type' in mind so to speak. Hopefully one day my curiosities come true

I have actually been addicted to it today, I couldn't upload any pictures and as of yet I still haven't used a lube but I have progressed to two fingers!


I know anal okay isn't for some but I think the pure thought of it turns me on as much as doing it. I watched myself doing it in the mirror earlier and started to ease in a second finger, I took a few pics of me with one in and then a video of two fingers. I don't mind if anyone wants to see the video, its 4 minutes long and doesn't show anything other than me fingering my ass but if anyone wants to see it, PM me your email address and I'll try sending it. I don't want to post it online yet but will share it

Oh I do want to finger myself and to update my previous post, I got further in! Last night before bed I went into the bathroom to follow up what I did earlier in the bath. I put one leg onto the bath and sort of squat over and I just started to do what I did in the bath, feel around. Before I knew it, I was spreading my cheeks as far as they could go and I was shimmying my finger inside. Got down to my knuckle(?) - middle joint of my finger and I had no lube.

I'm literally just after doing it again. I'm not getting orgasms from it or anything of the sort but its kinky as fuck being able to finger yourself like some slut. I haven't used lube yet and I'm getting so far in so I will use lube of some form and be able to get further in. Today I even tried to see how lucky I'd be with two fingers....not very. At least I've crossed that boundary and I'm not indulging in something that I never thought I would. I also took some pics of my finger there which I plan to share here, they aren't anything special, just a close up but why not?


I'm actually surprised that once you're doing it, how easy it is to go back in. I don't know what I expected but I'm impressing myself!

Not really a point to this thread as such, I just feel the need to tell someone!


I've been thinking a lot lately about anal masturbation. I've been taking pics of my ass in front of a mirror and I have been watching myself and taking pics of me on front of the mirror as my fingers circle my hole.


Today I got brave during a bath. I was watching porn on my phone, slowly jerking off and I had the urge to and explore my ass again. I did, and I ended up on my knees leaning forward and I told myself I was going to enter. I tried but I am tight and couldn't get past about half a centimetre but its the closest I've gotten to it.

I'll need to get lube without my girlfriend knowing but I've never been so turned on. I was SO close to fingering my ass

I've never had the pleasure of playing with another guys hard cock let alone two but it remains a fantasy of mine to receive a facial, maybe even bukkake...Reading your post got me nice and hard

3rd from the left and second last for me. Both are pretty much what I like in a girl!

That's the thing here. A label complicates things. As a society we over complicate things.

The reality is, if I, or anyone else is hard and blindfolded, does it matter who's lips are around our cock?

The finger in the ass thing, I'm sure I'm not the only one here that would think no to that but also know that when I'm in the situation, I'd probably go with it and even enjoy it. I've never had anything up there personally but I could see myself liking it.

Ultimately we all do things when we are horny that seem weird when we aren't. We get horny and live in the moment. Enjoy it!

I'm a shooter, don't think I ever just dribble

I'm a grower, from a couple of inches to five and a half in 0.3 seconds :-P