Hey guys, so few days ago I masturbated to gay porn but I'm straight and never really liked the same sex but ever since that moment I've kept wondering if I am gay, i really won't care if I find that out, but I've been watching gay porn for a while and in total of about 50 vids in total I've jerked of 3 times, twice to the same vid. So what ur thoughts on me and what should do because I am very confused about this, I'm starting to feel empty.

Don't worry about it!

You aren't gay unless you have a romantic attraction to men. Do you want to date guys? Share a milkshake with two straws? Go to the movies and hold hands? Sit on the sofa and make out? If so, then yes, you may be gay or bi by "definition".

But if you just like looking at guys having sex, or want to have sex with a guy...in my opinion that makes you a horny sex loving pervert like me. I like sex with anyone as long as it's consensual and feels good.

Don't put labels on things. Not everything fits neatly into a category, especially people.

Completely agree with SloStroker's comment. "You aren't gay unless you have a romantic attraction to men"

I jo to both straight and gay porn and I'm married. Also, I have a married buddy who I play with. We jo, suck each other and fuck each other but there is no kissing or romance. We also talk about our wives and fucking them. I dont like labels, but I do consider myself bi, rather than straight. Don't beat yourself up about it.

It's not "gay" to get turned on by gay porn. Stiff dicks are sexy, regardless of how you see them being used. It also seems kinda pervy.....with a traditionally "forbidden" quality. That causes arousal, and it's great to masturbate to. As soon as I'm hard after a gay porn session, I'm thinking how much I want to drill my wife and her nice big 38DDD tits.

@slostroker. you and I have the same philosophy!

Aroused sex organs of any gender are erotic. Hugging or kissing or sharing a straw with a guy would make me barf.

I've jerked to gay and shemale porn. I'm married and me and the wife have watched both together.

Nothing wrong with looking at a nice cock get sucked

Enjoying gay porn = enjoying gay porn

Enjoying gay porn =/= being gay or bisexual

If you enjoy gay porn then...you enjoy gay porn. If you enjoy watching gay porn then all anyone else can say with 100% certainty is that you enjoy watching gay porn. It doesn't necessarily follow that you are gay or bisexual. You COULD be but it isn't necessarily so. And watching gay porn isn't going to turn you into a gay or bisexual man just as watching straight porn isn't going to make a gay/bisexual person straight.

So if you enjoy watching gay porn I suggest you continue watching it. You don't have to run out to the local gay bar and find a boyfriend. Do whatever comes naturally to you. If you have a desire to masturbate to gay porn then masturbate to gay porn. If you someday have a desire to actually have sex with a guy then think about making that happen. But the two things are not one and the same.

Just illustrates how useless these labels are.

If it gets you hard and won't get you arrested, don't worry about it. Doesn't make you gay, doesn't make you anything other than a guy who watches something and thinks, "this makes me horny, I'm going to jerk off."

I think most responses are right on the mark. I too enjoy watching some gay porn, shemale pron, bisexual male MMF porn, etc. I jackoff to all of the above. Does that make me gay or bisexual?

I also very much enjoy jacking off to lesbian porn and I am sure that does not make me a lesbian (a little difficult to be a lesbian with a dick between your legs!)

Keep watching, keep jacking and keep having fun!!!

I jerk off to most everything. Lately, shemales and guys jacking is what gets me hard. I consider myself str8 even though i have a good friend that is gay who i have hung out with and jerked off and sucked his dick. Do I want to have a relationship with him, no. Is it fun to get naked and cum in front of him yes.

I'm always horny, str8t but curous.. lol, so anything that has sex on it,turns me on, 18 and over of course, bi straight, tranny, gay! what can you say, it's natural... lol

love stroking to ladyboys and sometimes asian guys fucking-I consider myself bisexual

Gay is a loose term that can be defined any way one chooses -- derived from a word that had been around for centuries and had nothing to do with sexuality. Gay was attached to the personality of the more flamboyant of homosexuals.

Now, homosexuality is a different thing. By definition, homo = "same" (homogeneous, homosexual, homonym, etc.) And sexuality means engaging in a sexual act. So, if you are aroused and ultimately orgasming due to pleasure creating by the stimulus of the same sex, it's a homosexual act.

I agree with other posters that "gay" has usually come to mean the act of being in some relationship with a man. Bisexuality, though, means enjoying sex with a women and also sex with a man. It would appear, at least in fantasy, that engaging with a man, sexually, turns you on. So maybe gay is the wrong term, but bisexuality (homo and heterosexuality actsss) is more what you are.

Regardless, as it was mentioned, who cares? You are what you are and enjoy what you enjoy! You may be 99% likely to have sex with a woman but the thought of a hard cock or doing something like that turns you on once in a while. Who cares what is called? It doesn't change you, it doesn't define you as a person, and it literally has no bearing on anything in your life. And, if you don't want, don't tell anyone. We all have our secrets. At some point in life, no one will care either way what anyone does to have an orgasm (outside of children, rape, etc, obviously).

Anyway, that's my take on it.