I was curious from an early age but stigmas seemed to discourage me. I started masturbating with guys when I was in my 30's and it's grown from there. I like women just fine for all the reasons guys like girls but I also enjoy sex with men on a fairly regular basis. To me it is two vary different kinds of sex that do not conflict. I enjoy frequent masterbation with other men and I also enjoy oral and hand jobs with guys I get to know and like. If I find a steady male partner I would be interesting in doing more. I love anal but so far it's only been the girls who've fucked me. But the thought of having a live and loaded cock up my ass is very exciting. The thought of being fucked and masturbating at the same time is very appealing.

Acceptance was mentioned above. I've been a much happier and sexually satisfied person since I've accepted the fact that I like sex with both men and women. The catagory is 'bi' but I feel that I'm just a sexual person. Sharing a good orgasm with any partner is a treat.

I had no experiences with other men until I was in my mid-forties and progressed from masturbating in video arcades window booths while watching and being watched, to mutual jacking in adult theaters, to meeting guys infrequently for j/o sessions. Now I've become a cam nut and love to jack and chat with other guys on cam. I haven't sucked a cock or fucked with a man yet, and I'm not sure about the latter but would certainly try the former with someone I knew and trusted. I don't know what to classify myself and really don't care as long as I can enjoy sex.

It amazes me that there are so many of us mature guys that are interested in this. Married guy, 62, in Missouri near St. Louis. I just discovered my bi interest a few years ago. I have been very cautious, of course, and opportunities are limited due to marriage. I do get the opportunity to chat/cam/phone when wife is out of town, and I really enjoy it. My ideal situation would be to find another older married guy, inexperienced like me but also discreet, to get together with....maybe meet a time or two for coffee, drinks, etc. to get to know each other. I would love to be able to meet a true buddy once or twice a month, drink some beer, watch some porn or sports on a Saturday afternoon, and just hang around and play together for a few hours. Makes me hard just thinking about it!

My wife is gone for a few days and I have the privacy to indulge in my favorite hobby; surfing the net, chatting, camming, etc. with other older, married, and bi/curious men. If this describes you and you like intelligent chat and hot masturbation fun, send me a note here or add my YIM in my profile. slowhand1947

I waited until I was sixty and I am still wondering why!

I have to say I didnt have the desire to try bi till I was older. But at this point. . . . I am still standing on the curious side of the line, wondering.

I agree with chronic_jerker the thought of other guys sometimes turns me on but I don't want to suck or be sucked. Maybe touch and be touched. I often wonder what it would be like to feel another guys cock and balls....just to play with them and have him play with mine but more than that turns me off. I also like the idea of me and another guy jerking each other while being teased by a female. Is that weird?

I like the idea of jo with men my age and older.

Nothing that makes you feel good is weird.

Terrible logic. What about pedophiles and serial killers/rapists?

Got to admit when my doc puts his fingure up my ass i feel sick,oh it is so not me and to imagine another guys cock up there just does not do it for me.I would sooner take it in my mouth for sure

I share your view on the "bi" label as well as the idea that sex with a guy is a totally different thing than with a lady. I, too just consider myself a sexual person. I've only been with one guy since accepting my sexuality about 4 years ago; not nearly as much as you've been able to do. We met regularly for about 6 months until his job transferred him out of state. We meet anytime he comes back to see his extended family. My situation just doesn't allow for finding another partner very well. My wife is aware and fully supportive to the point of telling me she had no problem with me having a male sex buddy. She had hinted she would like to watch us sometime, but he was too "shy". I've connected with a few guys locally by net and phone, but something kept me from taking the next step of meeting any of them. The first time my buddy did me anally was one of the most incredible things I've ever felt. He massaged my anus with lube for a long time to make sure he wouldn't hurt me when he went in. He was so great. Cumming at the same time he shot his load into me became a regular thing that I miss very much. As a poster above me pointed out, don't be worried about labels or other people's narrow views. I read in some philosophy article once that sexual pleasure of either homo or hetero nature actually feeds the spirit. Enjoy yourself and keep your spirit well fed.
To the poster who mentioned pedophilia and rape: I think we all know what the limits are on acceptable sexual behavior. This site is carefully monitored for anything like that in a thread. The guy who said nothing that makes you feel good is weird obviously wasn't referring to that.

I'm 40 and still a curious virgin with both sexes. I am totally into men. I thought 30 was too late to start, and I am 40 now.

you guys are awesome and i am exactly where most of u are...it makes for a wild hot fantasy rt now...all i stroke to these days

Same for me, happily married for 49 years and love pussy, BUT, the older I get the more I want cock. Jacked and sucked with a couple of male friends up to age 12, but since have only jacked in porn theatres and video booths. Had men suck my cock twice in porn theatre many years ago, nothing close by now though. Had a male friend that would jack with me while watching porn and would let me stroke his cock, but wouldnt touch me or let me suck his dick, but alas he moved away. I fantasize about strokin and sucking cock ALL the time. I do c2c, voice and chat as often as I can which is about once a month. Fantastic jacking and chatting with someone around our age, either on Yahoo or Skype.