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Mikeyb3 Novice Jackinchatter

28 posts since 2010-08-30
45 year old homosexual from Orlando, FL
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hey bros. 33 m 6ft3 200lbs masc musc 7 cut. Good looking guy thought was str8 then slowly started jo w buds online and watching gay porn. Have never dated and still a virgin.Went through inferiority issues growing up so never had confidence too. Do u think i might be bi or am i just a straight guy who wants to get cock sucked. If i am bi how do i accept it from myself. Everybody says dont use labels kinda tough when u cant accept that youll still be masc even if you are bi. Howe do i accept that .
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Yo dude,

Just be you. Gay Straight Bi does it really matter?

I'm happily married, love my wife, god damn love pussy. I also enjoy sucking cock, what does that make me? I'll tell you what it makes me, happy.

Labels are for losers, people who need to be put in a pen like a sheep.

Roam free dude! - Being yourself is way more attractive than trying to 'fit in'
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ElBurrito Novice Jackinchatter

51 posts since 2011-01-31
bisexual from Rancho Cucamonga CA
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myguy said:
Yo dude,

Just be you. Gay Straight Bi does it really matter?

I'm happily married, love my wife, god damn love pussy. I also enjoy sucking cock, what does that make me? I'll tell you what it makes me, happy.

Labels are for losers, people who need to be put in a pen like a sheep.

Roam free dude! - Being yourself is way more attractive than trying to 'fit in'

Well said brother!
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JObuddyIA Skilled Jackinchatter

846 posts since 2008-05-23
73 year old homosexual from Keokuk Iowa, USA
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I think it is more important to allow yourself to experience the things you'd like to experience. In time, you may come to realize 'what' you are, and maybe then can label yourself if you wish. But the label isn't really all that important. Love yourself, and love your life, and remember it is short and will pass you by quickly !
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Bro just relax enjoy jacking and wtv elese u like. IM str8 and i jo with guys cuz its fkn hot just let urself find urself
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Jerkysmith Novice Jackinchatter

4 posts since 2012-02-22
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You should not define what you are until you have had sex bro. Or at least kissed a women or a man. If you can do either of those you should know by the feeling you get while doing them if you are gay, by, or straight. Good luck man.
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Just do what you feel is right. If your fat straight or bi whatever who cares
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1235 posts since 2012-02-03
62 year old bisexual male from US
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Friend, just take it easy. Life is short but can feel never-ending when you're miserable. It doesn't matter if you're straight or gay as long as you are good to others. If you find a guy you like and want to spend time with then do it. You will be doing both of you a favor. Even if you like guys it doesn't mean you're gay. If you're in love with a guy then good for you. If you like women then good luck with that. grin Women are a pain in the ass and don't understand men like a man can. However, they are nice to the touch and on the eyes. I do have to say that there are very few guys I like looking at but about 99% of the women make me hard. stroke
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Friend, just take it easy. Life is short but can feel never-ending when you're miserable. It doesn't matter if you're straight or gay as long as you are good to others. If you find a guy you like and want to spend time with then do it. You will be doing both of you a favor. Even if you like guys it doesn't mean you're gay. If you're in love with a guy then good for you. If you like women then good luck with that. grin Women are a pain in the ass and don't understand men like a man can. However, they are nice to the touch and on the eyes. I do have to say that there are very few guys I like looking at but about 99% of the women make me hard. stroke
this post is full of win lol. *claps*
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Hornystud25 Novice Jackinchatter

1 posts since 2012-03-01
37 year old
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Mikeyb3 said:
hey bros. 33 m 6ft3 200lbs masc musc 7 cut. Good looking guy thought was str8 then slowly started jo w buds online and watching gay porn. Have never dated and still a virgin.Went through inferiority issues growing up so never had confidence too. Do u think i might be bi or am i just a straight guy who wants to get cock sucked. If i am bi how do i accept it from myself. Everybody says dont use labels kinda tough when u cant accept that youll still be masc even if you are bi. Howe do i accept that .


Hey man. You're def not the only guy facing that situation. I'm 25 years old, good looking guy and I used to think that I was straight, too. It took me YEARS to finally accept I liked guys too and you def shouldn't worry about labels. One more thing: being bisexual DOESN'T MEAN you stop being masculine. One thing doesn't have to do with the other. Yes, I like both guys and girls and I'm masc all the way !!

PM me or send me an email if you wanna talk further about this. ;-)
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Mikeyb3 Novice Jackinchatter

28 posts since 2010-08-30
45 year old homosexual from Orlando, FL
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Thanks guys for your help, str8 here but def like to Jo w guys cause as cumstud19 said its fucking hot. Prob have bisexual tendencies. But for now just a cool guy who prob needs a Jo bud and to get laid. I can accept that I'm me and I like sex just plain and simple. However when it comes to love I think women will take care of that. It's no big deal don't have to advertise its between me myself and I . Now I need to go out get laid and be me. Then I'll make a decision in time
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Labels are for losers, people who need to be put in a pen like a sheep. Love this line! But really, as long as you and your partner are happy, tell the rest of the world to get lost. Be you, think, love and be marry!
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KansasWood Skilled Jackinchatter

508 posts since 2006-06-20
72 year old bisexual male from Kansas City area
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hey mike. I think you do have to just be you and being sexual is different to each person. As for you wanting to be with a woman, possibly date and all that goes with that. I used one of the major dating sites and have had a great time with very nice women.. As for jackin with other guys I dont see that for anymore than it is.. having fun and getting off.
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g_g27374 Novice Jackinchatter

22 posts since 2006-09-27
52 year old curious from north carolina triad
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damn dude sound like twins same boat heer except 40 the dating sites suck alot of women but no replies sucks. i have to vent my sexual tension somehow so with guys it ok with me.
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142 posts since 2007-05-24
49 year old curious male from Sweden
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Hornystud25 said:
Hey man. You're def not the only guy facing that situation. I'm 25 years old, good looking guy and I used to think that I was straight, too. It took me YEARS to finally accept I liked guys too and you def shouldn't worry about labels. One more thing: being bisexual DOESN'T MEAN you stop being masculine. One thing doesn't have to do with the other. Yes, I like both guys and girls and I'm masc all the way !!

PM me or send me an email if you wanna talk further about this. ;-)


I agree with you both! It came almost like a shock to me when I discoverd that could be turned on by another mans body and actions. Before I always defiened myself as str8 and all other things were perverted. With wife and kid it has been a long way to accept myself for the one I really am.
There are no simple solutions for this - noone else can do the job for you. You have to make decisions on your own, think a lot, discuss with others and - GIVE IT TIME.
You are a fantastic person as you are - with all your sides and colors.

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I am 175 (5'9) 70 kg (145) blue eyes, light hair & smooth body, naturally muscled.
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