Last 2 nights my bate plans were ruined when wife stayed up late and let me watch TV. When she goes to bed early I will watch 30 min TV then go up to my computer room to edge for 2-3 hrs. On nights she watches something I don't like I say I am going to watch something in my room, edge to porn for hours. Now I suspect she thinks that I will bate at some point but not how much. Any guys just tell their wives or S/O that they are going to edge for hours? If so how did you let her know about your habit/ addiction. I feel its difficult thing to tell someone.

My wife frowns on masturbation in general. It would pretty hard to explain a 2 hour video and cam session that includes me eating ruined cums and shooting as load for some appreciative cam partner.

My wife typically goes to bed a good hour or more before I do. She's well aware that if I stay up later than her, that it's pretty even odds that I'm going to end up jacking off. It's not a big deal.

Home nudism, porn, and masturbation have been parts of my regular routine since we first started dating, and she's been aware since day one.