Hello all. I am just writing this to confess that in 22 years married I have never been able to satisfy my wife from regular sex. Only orally. I cum extremely quickly always have. I can even cum when still soft, often do. If you like to chat about this, let me know....
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wow thats as bad as me, being small and not able to get hard enough. sorry for your problems, as i can only get her off orally. I finally let a friend that is pretty hung and thick take care of her although he did hurt her at first. i did enjoy watching him getting her hot and to the point of her craving his cock and hearing her whimper

She has had affairs early in marriage and also more recently.

Very often, premature ejaculation is a conditioned response. Many cases can be directly linked to masturbation during the adolescent years. It's thought that ejaculating quickly is to lessen the risk of being caught.
There are a few techniques that you may want to try to help with the problem.
There are a plenty of websites that offer advice. And you can even buy topical creams that will desensitise your penis.

My wife can only get off fucking she enjoys oral but a cock hitting the G spot sends her screaming the older I get the harder I find it to Cumm

We tried doctors. He gave exercises, recommended pill called Priligy, but nothing has worked. Doctor also said my problem was a condition response from always cumming quickly from being young.

When I asked my wife admitted she had her best orgasm when I licked, sucked and fingered her pussy. I got most excited when she without asking started to lick my cock. The maximal pleasure of both is the most important thing.

My wife also enjoys oral orgasms, she also likes masturbating but I know she has had orgasms from sex with other men in the past and she must have enjoyed that.

I have a friend who is my neibour
he is rather small and has erection problems
so they asked if I could help with my size
I satisfy his wife

My wife has mentioned she likes a new neighbor guy.....maybe she will

I think if you look around in the real world, not bullshit, lies, fantasy, and porn, most women don't actually get to orgasm from fucking. Never saw it as a problem. If she's got some kind of hangup about getting off from oral, either she's got bigger issues or she hasn't taught you how to be good at it.

Bit of an opposite situation here I guess... wife would absolutely love to get off from oral (and I absolutely love eating pussy) then crave a good fucking instantly after her orgasm, but quite often I'd go on for too long ... I'd rarely cum soon enough to match the "sweet spot"... 30+ years married now but unfortunately her drive is all but gone. Life happens.

I learned early on that my wife can't orgasm from just being fucked, although she does enjoy it. If I go on too long, though, she finds it uncomfortable - I get aggressive and have to push her legs up to go deep, which she can tolerate for a while but then it hurts and she wants me to finish.

There are so many ways to please each other in bed, and it makes absolutely no sense to get hung up on some expectation like "she should cum from being fucked." I make her cum in other ways and she loves it.

Was wondering if anyone was going to say this. You are absolutely correct. In spite of all the performative sex and fantasies and porn, most women need direct clitoral stimulation to cum, and for the most part our anatomy doesn't line up properly for that.

Occasionally my wife can cum from PiV sex. But almost always I have already gotten her off once orally or at least got her close orally. I think that is the norm as others here have said. I love eating pussy so I am happy to make sure she cums first! Then it doesnt matter if I am a ten thrust wonder some nights!

^^ yes! ^^