One of the joys of discovering the internet and online communities is the realization that there is such a thing as having a 'jerk buddy.' I think in the offline 'real world' there is a heavy pressure to categorize desires and orientations as straight, bisexual, or gay; but Jerk buddy is in itself a kind of unique territory as it compiles the best aspects of platonic male friendship (intimacy, support networks, a friend to talk to and confide in) with the sexual aspects of a relationship (Mutual masturbation) However, someone like me is in a unique situation as i do not find men conventionally sexually attractive. I don't see a guy and think "I want to jerk with him" Instead, those types of desires grow from a unique type of intimacy with a jerk buddy. In stroking together to porn, women, or celebrities, we bond and share a mutual desire and pleasure, and the desire to stroke or suck a buddy doesn't necessarily come from a desire for him as much as our connection and desire to help a friend.
As someone who works from home I would love to make a friend who is available to chat during the work day and masturbate, someone I can trade photos of our favorite celebrities with, trade porn clips and pics, and get off together as we develop an intimate bond together. Let me know if this is something that interests you! You can reach me on Skype at SyntheticDreams2077 or by Discord at SensualMusings#5227
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