I guess I'm a little behind the times in knowing this is a thing! Just learned about the idea of prostate massage and cumming from that without stroking. I'm looking for advice on technique or tips or a toy that someone has used successfully for this. I've looked on line at the general idea and get that- but looking for real life tips for a newbie.

ive tried it in the shower and never found any joy at all.

I'd like to do this as well. I sometimes masturbate with a T-shaped prostate toy up my asshole, but I've never been able to ejaculate without stroking my cock too.

I have tried all sorts of toys but can't seem to push myself over the edge.

My wife can put just her on finger in my ass and get me to cum from that without touching my cock in under 5 min. We did take a prostate massage class from a sexologist on a swinger cruise so that is how she got the technique down.

I've been able to do it a couple of times but I need to be really horny. I'll have a regular edging session then start some anal play with a toy then I'll do a combination of wanking and prostate massage with the toy until it feels like I can control my orgasm purely through anal play. Then I keep going until I cum. The orgasm itself is incredible, seems to last longer than with a regular wank. Plus I love watching my cock cum and spasm and shoot ropes everywhere hands free.

Which toy do you use Will? This sounds amazing, I know I will enjoy it.

Don't go for anal play every time but if missus is out for a while I'll treat myself. If I want a bit more than my finger, I use a sharpie in the finger of a lubed vinyl glove.

I have tried a dildo on my ass a few times and always have to stroke my cock to get my nut. Have a friend that I fingerfuck him while he strokes and gets off.

i have tried to do this never been able find my prostate or cum
would like it to happen one day i will just keep trying

Thanks @will10000! Will try the technique. Any suggestions on specific toys for this?