i am a normal guy. dress normally.... am not a weird recluse.. but love jerking it. sometimes for 2 hours..... but however much i have an amazing time, i always get a sense of shame after. i have alway felt this, and doesn't impose on my enjoyment at the time, just after. i'll alwats come back though.. anyone elsE?

I was spanked when caught by my mom as a kid, so I can definitely relate. I felt the same way you did after I jacked for most of my adult life. Finding this lovely site was of great help to me. I just kept telling myself that masturbation is a normal human activity. I no longer feel the guilt much at all. Hope this helps.

No way, no how will I ever feel the least bit guilty after playing with myself! It's my hand and it's my cock and if I want to stroke it and cum all over myself, then so be it.

Damned straight, brother. *high 5*

Sounds like me except I'm older. I was never punished for jackin', I was never ridiculed for it at all, but immediately after I'm done, the guilt washes over me. It doesn't happen if I'm having sex with my wife, only when I masturbate, so, that leads me to believe that it's a mental thing that's spurred on by a physical event (orgasm). For some reason my mind tells me it's wrong. I don't think it's wrong, but the guilt remains for a few hours, then slowly dissipates.

I'm not sure why it happens, but it does, and reading what others have to say here has helped me a lot. I find that I'm not alone in this, and maybe it will help you to know that you're not alone, either. It happens to many people, both male and female.

I felt a little guilty about it when younger. Probably because I had to be secretive about it - like I couldn't imagine being caught. Absolutely normal for guys to masturbate, but maybe not every day or more. I think it had more to do with the frequency of my masturbating as a younger teen.

I just can't imagine how anyone could feel "guilty" after jacking off. Back in the '50s with a date in the drive in movie, we had gotten to the point of both of us having our pants down around our knees. The subject of pleasuring ourselves had come up and she wanted to actually watch to see how a guy jacked off. I had never wanked in front of a girl before and was not sure how this was going to go over.
But as I began stroking my teen aged hardon with her watching intently, I saw that she had her fingers in her pussy and was doing herself very erotically. She watched me cum all over my hand and the car seat, and moments later she had her own orgasm. We kissed and she thanked me for allowing her to see a guy cum for the first time in her life.
I was also amazed at what a girl went through in jilling herself.
Mutual masturbation then became a big part of our dating routine for several years. Since those days, I have had no problem or guilt at all, in wanking with either my 1st or 2nd wife. I'm a widower now and see my wifes sister a few times a year, and when we are not fucking, we often enjoy jacking and jilling each other.

I too masturbated with girls when I was a teen, and was very proud of the girls reactions to my erections and huge orgasms, and now I do it with my wife. We enjoy watching each other masturbate often. It's only when I'm by myself and masturbate to orgasm that the guilt invades my mind. It's not "before" the orgasm, always during. I like to edge for hours with no ill effects. I feel it wash over me in the last spasms of my self induced orgasms.
Admittedly, after an entire life of this happening, I'm used to it. I know it's going to come, as I cum (a little play on words), so it's not a huge problem, and I've talked with others who experience the same thing. It must be a chemical/hormonal reaction that happens during orgasm. I also feel extremely releaved and relaxed with absolutely no horniness left, which is a normal response of orgasm, until it builds up again in a day or so, then I'm ready to do it all over again.

a friends older brother taught me to jack when i was 11, just before turning 12 i started pumping out cream. mom had gotten divorced from asshole # 3 mom kinda married every guy that she fucked she had me at 16 my sis at 18 different dads any way she went of to club med with due moms g/f stayed at our house and watch me and sis. connie moms friend was like 5 years younger than mom and was a hair dresser hippy chic. wore like moo-moo dress with nothing on under them connie was plumper with big tits. i was always trying to look at her tits or up her dress. she teased me about getting boners any way i use to j/o in bath room and hide that i was jackin one saturday morning i had gotten up early to help neighbor with unloading his truck got pretty dirty was in shower when connie got up forgot to lock the bath room door she came in sat and took a pee. i was boned and jacin she
pulled open shower curtain there i was naked all soaped up and cock in hand.
turn beet red. connie dropped her dress stepped into the shower told me to finish. sis was going to birthday party and sleep over at a friend connie dropped her off. when she got back. she told me to follow her into moms room. she told me to strip. she did the same. she said that from now on i need to be open about sex that i shouldn't hide my true feeling and that i should enjoy solo sex and other sex. with that my sex ed started. she was my first every thing.

I was very actively playing with myself for a couple of years before that first really memorable orgasm. But I used to get really frustrated because I would just get myself worked up, and couldn't "end". When I finally did, it was sweet release. I was so relieved, but my immediate reaction was I WILL BE DOING THIS AGAIN!!. I was brought up in Catholic Ireland and touching yourself was supposedly the fast track to hell. Lots of my friends were hugely guilty about it. I got hold of some books on the topic, etc. As a teenager I became a bit of an evangalist about it, telling people that it was natural and good and that all guys (I didnt know enough about female stats) and got into sharing it with a few guys and one girl. I dont know why I never felt the guilt thing, I just have not. Ever. I edged this morning for 2 hours and came really heavily. After that, I was playing with myself in that nice post orgasmic glow, and ended up doing another quickie. If I felt guilty about it, I think that I would be a basket case by now. On occasion Ill do it many many times in a day, or for hours in a day. I kinda feel like anything this good, free and that affects nobody has to be an inheritely good thing.

I played with my dick a small boy but nothing really happened until 14. I was just cleaning it, (really good) and it went off. What a surprise! Sort of late, I guess. After ejaculating I suffered huge guilt for several years, not while doing it, just afterwords. Of course I would not admit to anybody.

I married at 21, and continued to feel guilt. The one day, at age 26 I accepted it, looked in the mirror and said. "This is great, and I wont feel guilty again, and I will admit it to anyone"

My advice to anyone is. Do it and don't feel guilty.

I might disagree with the hours and hours of it every day. You need to be productive in life, and enjoy so many other things each day. Stoke it good, stroke it hard. Then get something else accomplished

I guess I'm lucky. I used to play with mine when I was a kid, before I knew anything about sex. I'd rub it through my pants or hump the floor. My parents said nothing. When I started ejaculating, I used to use the same towel for a long period of time so my mom wouldn't find out, then I'd throw it away, or bury it in the laundry basket when it was too stiff to absorb any more spooge.

I got to the point where I was jacking off three times a day, every day. I met a girl in college, and on our third date, we were making out heavy and I wanted to fuck but she wasn't ready and she felt bad leaving me with a big boner. I told her not to worry, that I'd take care of myself later. She said, "You mean masturbate?". I said, "Yeah, don't you do it". She admitted that she did, but not very often as she was raised being told it was a "sin". She asked me if I'd do it in front of her, and I said "Sure" and proceeded to blow a load while she watched.

She's come out of her shell a bit over the last 15 years. She still doesn't have a big sex drive because she was raised to believe it was "dirty", "sinful", and "wrong".

Now that we have a daughter, when she "discovered" herself, we didn't discourage it. We tell her she needs to go to her room and do that in private. Even at 5yo, she actively masturbates quite a bit. My wife and I don't encourage it, but we don't discourage it. As long as she's doing it in private, then it's a healthy sexual avenue for her that she can enjoy her entire life and hopefully it will lead to her having a good, healthy sex life as well.

***********

I masturbated furiously from as young as I can remember. I don't recall feeling any guilt, but I knew it was a private thing. My dad talked to me a few times starting at 11--mainly suggesting that I not do it too much. The message came too late. It was secretive, but not a guilty feeling. I used Sears and National Geographic and later some pictures stolen from a neighbor kid's fort. I felt guilty about the fort pix, they were pretty rank.

I masturbated unabated till I met my wife. She was a masturbator--though in a different sense than me. We practiced mutual masturbation extensively in dating days and then it nearly stopped for a few years. Last 5 years it has really picked up again and we enjoy it a lot.

Yeah, I think when I was in my early years I felt a little guilt just because it was new and I was unaware, not anymore. Masturbation is natural and it's the safest way that a person can get that form of pleasure. There are no cons to it unless it's LITERALLY the ONLY thing you do besides eat and shit, then it's a problem and might require guilt. Until then, Wack, Jack, Fap....when did "Fap" become a word?