Recently I really have turned to sex with other guys in a big way. Lots of jacking and sucking with a small group of buds. I asked one of the guys to fuck me and be gentle. I was surprised how easily my hole loosened up as I relaxed. I had a big orgasm after taking his load. Going to make cream pies more

Great!

The main issue is getting past the mental blockade so many guys have to being fucked - sounds like you had no problem with that.

Enjoy and have fun!