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bongboobsblokey Novice Jackinchatter

37 posts since 2011-09-22
43 year old heterosexual from Central Mid'Lothian, UK
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Jay said:
I think it is the thrill of doing it with each other. We can both share the same feeling and exprience of masturbating. Watching each other cum is fun.


I kind of know what you mean...or at least used to!
I've never jerked off with another guy except for twice when I was still in high school with my mate.

Masturbation was very new to us as we were teens & stumbled onto it by mistake really.

We were both at the early stages of puberty were no sperm would come out if we orgasmed when jerking off when we saw horny stuff.
The 1st time we did it at the same time was because of the girl across the road from me with the big boobs who was the daughter of my dads mate who used to deliberately take her bra off at bedtime with the curtains half open so we could spy on her & our trousers would bulge.
She was 2 years older than us & used to pretend she did not know we could see her. We had seen her do this when he stayed over at mine many times & eventually we would get hard but do nothing except giggle until she stopped it. However 1 night soon we could no longer resist & we jerked under our pyjamas & when we orgasmed there was no sperm from either of us but it was still an amzing time to be so lucky to be hooked on real big boobs at such a young impressionable age.

The 2nd time we jerked off at the same time was after finding a bag full of porn. So, we planned a sleepover at his to secretly view it as my mum was a strict catholic & would have killed me if she found the bag of mags/vhs vidz.

We ended up getting hard under our pyjamas the night when we looked at it all when his parents were fast asleep.
We checked out the mags first for over an hour just rubbing our semi's under our trousers.
But later as the video was playing we got our hard cocks out for comparison of size for a laugh as we were very horny & giddy as it was our first hardcore vhs video experience (we're talking the early 90's here!).
The videos were so sexy we ended up masturbating with our cocks visible to each other this time as we lay back on his couch in his room. Again very fun except for the 1st time ever my m8 spurted some sperm ou when he orgasmed & it landed on my knee a bit (eeeuwgh, yuk!)
We were both a bit messed in the head afterwrds so that was the last time we did that!

The next time I jerked of with another guy was in my late 20s but it was only because we were doing it with 2 girls there who we were having sexytime with. It was a wickedly fun night having the girls judge/compare both our 1st cumshots on each of their boobs.

I am not into jerking with other guys at all since leaving high school UNLESS there is at least one woman present to really focus on!
If she has big tits then it's a BruceyBonus IMO coz it is also fun to pick a boob each to orgasm on
...I prefer a girls right side boob as my wee man has a slight kink to the left LOL grin
I like a woman who jiggles when she walks.
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i dont enjoy the idea of it, i ride solo when i jerk off. masturbation is my alone time. i used to do it with my ex girlfriend on cam when were away from eachother, thats it.
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rodsmith Skilled Jackinchatter

680 posts since 2006-02-02
59 year old heterosexual male from Orange County NY ny hudson valley New York
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I have to agree with a lot of other guys here....we all jerk off and why not be able to enjoy it with each other?

We all have cocks and once we begin masturbating at puberty we spend a lot of time with our hands on our dicks.

As others have said we can empathize with each other while jerking together and even jerking each other instead of just doing it by ourselves when alone.

I first jerked off with a buddy when I was 13, actually I showed my friend how to shoot a load and the activity remained pretty much dormant for a long time. Then recently I was able to find a number of guys to meet up with and show off our cocks, stroke some, and even cum with each other, or sometimes they'd just shoot in front of me. I was lucky to find a local buddy who enjoys doing it with me so we get together from time to time, and we are normal family guys with kids. It's harmless fun. More guys should be able to loosen up and enjoy it with their buds!

C'mon all you bate buds, stand up and be counted!
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I am with you. I am 59 years old this year and love to masturbate. I am still married and enjoy a good sex life with my wife - though not as frequent as it once was. I too have on a few occasions masturbated in front of other men whilst they too have masturbated either me or themselves. And of course I have masturbated on line on a number of occasions. Thanks for your thoughts.
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AndronAnderson Novice Jackinchatter

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76 year old heterosexual from Perth, Western Australia
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So much that has been said in this blog is self evident to me.

Like most of you, I did some mutual JO when I first hit puberty. Then I didn't - not that I would not have occasionally wanted to! But I was too afraid to ask - such has been the social attitude to mutual masturbation. Matters have changed - thank heavens!

I recently had an experience with another man that was quite exciting - and will be happy to try it again. It is a turn on to feel another man's cock! And I'm happily married and still have heterosexual sex.
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I'm straight, and I've never jerked off with another guy, but I am interested in the idea. I quite literally have no homosexual tendancies, but I still think it could be fun with no contact whatsoever.

I'm kinda actually thinking of it as practice. If stroking solo is "practice" for sex, could jerking together be practice for group sex? Seriously! Ever notice how most personal postings for gang bangs, mmfs, dogging, etc., always say you should be "comfortable around other naked men"? Well, this would be a good way to get over that if it's an issue!
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would be nice to see the efect on the other person cock the porn had on it; do we both getg excited at the same things and what makes each other cum
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Jacked off with buds all my life, squeezing their hot pricks to stiffness, watching the sperm shoot out.Fucked pussy and been sucked by women all my life too, but now in my old age have really enjoy the fun of jacking a dick and even sucking cock and swallowing cum..been sucking a young neighbor(legal age, of course) lately and love to feel his young stiff rod fucking my mouth and feeling his sperm hit the back of my throat.as I gulp down his hot jizz. He`s very horny and "cums" to my place often and fucks my throat all he wants..I told him to bring his friends..he said he will.. can`t wait for two cocks in my happy mouth...
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All of the above strokestrokestroke
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I think it is just the greatest. Have a mature guy with small equipment who likes to sit astride me chest and shoot his load on me.

Just love to see a guy shooting his load and like to help
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malebeauty said:
Why do so many guys seem to enjoy masturbating together? It seems that even alot of heterosexual men, including marrieds, like to jack off with another male. Anyone care to offer THEIR ideas on why men enjoy this so much?


For me it brings back memories of my youth when most of my friends liked to see other cocks and play with them out of curiosity. Those were times of freedom when attitudes did not apply about what your sexual status was; we just enjoyed each other at the time and then got on with our lives in between.

Also sucking was not an option when I was a boy in UK, so mutual masturbation was the thing to do. I suppose in a way it was an adventure and it was good to find out how other boys reacted; how the conversation led to exposing each other's cocks; what the size of their cocks was; how they liked to have it wanked; how long it took for them to cum; what they did and said during and after cuming; what we did afterwards and so on.

As we get older and have adult lives (and perhaps get married) there is a tendency to perhaps think that the mutual masturbation of our youth was just a phase that we went through and for some men that is all it was. For others the idea of recapturing those days as an adult has a sort of fascination and with the introduction of the Internet with its explicit representations and chat such as this, it rekindles our younger fantasies and gives us the idea of returning to those times as an adult within a more mature mindset.
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154 posts since 2012-06-03
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You really need to experiance it to understand how good it feels to have a guy play with your cock and let them control things and to hold another hard cock in your hand and make the owner cum. A guy also has an understanding of how it feels so they are generally a lot gentler and understand how it feels when they masturbate another guy. I was lucky enought to be part of 6 guy naked orgy where we masturbated each other. Having a cock in each hand and two guys stroking my cock and balls while I watched the others doing the same sort of thing was fantastic.
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How exciting. I think nothing beats a nice wank and that was awsome!
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stroke40uc said:
Haven't done it since I was teen, but I enjoyed sharing techniques - and just sharing how good it feels to masturbate. Sort of nice to know that other guys enjoy their cocks as much as I enjoy mine. And there wasn't much sexual activity with the opposite sex - or it was more complicated. Then again, it was also nice that we were experiencing the same horniness and same exact sensations. How good it feels to have an erection, ball play, same sensitive areas. Reaching orgasm and seeing each other ejaculate - the same sexual responses. For the same reasons, I would consider doing it again.


I totally agree, The first time the situation arrises (pun intended). And you both or all know what needs to be done so you get to work stroke and enjoy the moment. When i've masturbated with friends. I find that it breaks down barriers and makes the friendship closer and not in a sexual way.
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588 posts since 2007-09-18
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The feeling of another guy wanking your cock while having his in hand is awesome. I love wanking with another guy while watching porn or standing holding/caressing each other while wanking and whispering dirty things in each others ear is even better mmmmmm I Have loved mutual masturbation since i was young.
i just love mutual wanking
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