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BigBushGuy Skilled Jackinchatter

666 posts since 2011-10-07
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My only experience with this was at a slumber party in middle school in the dark and we are all jacking together. I enjoyed it but never did it again.

I'm straight and am not aroused by men in anyway, but I would never judge anyone. I think I would try it today. Sounds fun
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veltins Novice Jackinchatter

5 posts since 2012-06-03
52 year old curious from Germany
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You know, I believe that men are looking at each other and judge each other, straight men too. No one can tell me that a man does not notice other man in the locker room. Any man will look at a dick to compare, in the loo and at every other opportunity.
Therefore, I think that a guy also wonders how other guys jerk off and if the opportunity given will jerk off with other guys. Due to inhibitions it is a quite sensitve subject, so most men will refrain from it...but I still think most men are interested...
Let me know what you think on my theories...
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399 posts since 2006-06-20
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Well I look forward to this breaking down barriers. It can either do that or end the friendship. cry
I have a friend who I've known for sometime and I think it's time to act. Like I've written before he's single and his living arrangements aren't the best for privacy. My girl can't give a handjob for shit, so it would be fun to get off with him.

I even send him porn and pics on facebook that will force him to beat off. First he has to admit that he does. Once I hurdle that obstacle, then it's time for maybe a porn night or a 'new girl' evening. I went on vacation with him a whole week and I was totally insecure. Did he sneak one in the bathroom? Hopefully I'll find out soon.

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I totally agree, The first time the situation arrises (pun intended). And you both or all know what needs to be done so you get to work stroke and enjoy the moment. When i've masturbated with friends. I find that it breaks down barriers and makes the friendship closer and not in a sexual way.
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iBalls Skilled Jackinchatter

673 posts since 2010-08-29
53 year old curious from Ottawa, Ontario
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The answer to the poster's question is: because precious few girls will do so
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Chicago69 Novice Jackinchatter

79 posts since 2012-06-01
49 year old curious from Chicago South
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Creamaster said:
Because we guys are hard-pressed (as it were) to find girls to masturbate with us.
I think this has a lot to do with it too.
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I believe also its bc there arent any girls to do it with. I ised to jo with a friend when i was very young but it ended there. Id like to have a bud but im concerned of being recorded and then being exposed. Its fun bc you hv someone to do it with.
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Cockatrice Amateur Jackinchatter

141 posts since 2012-03-23
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I jacked off hundreds of times with dozens of my straight friends throughout junior high, high school, and college. And every single one of them told me about multiple other straight guys they'd each also done it with.

The one I did it most with was and is my best and closest guy friend. Straight as an arrow and very athletic - on the high school track and swim team, muscular and with amazingly huge thick feet. It became a very regular thing for us to end up bare-assed naked and jerking off to porn together, really some of the happiest experiences of my younger life. We never touched each other, but otherwise had no secrets - always naked around each other and openly staring at the other jacking it, sharing all of our stories of our sexploits with girls and our raunchiest porno fantasies. It was amazingly intimate. My dick was a lot bigger than his and it really interested him, but he'd gotten vastly more action than I ever did and so always had better dirty stories to tell. We did this from about age 15 to 26 so we got to see each other grow up while doing it.

The furthest it ever went was a few times we'd talk to each other as though one of us was a hot girl in our class - think of it as phone sex but with the other person in the room and only pretending to be a girl, i.e. "(in soft girly voice) Oh did you like that tight shirt I was wearing at school today? Did it show off my big tits? Do you like my big tits" "Oh yeah, Sarah (or other girl's name), I want to suck your big tits, I'm jerking off right now thinking of them, I wish I could fuck you so hard..." "Oh yeah, (my friend's name), my pussy's so wet for you, I want you in my pussy, you're so hot and I'm imagining you fucking me right now..." or, "(hot girl's name), I'm so horny for you, you give me the biggest hardons," "I know, (my name), I can't believe how big your dick is, I'm sure it'd make me feel so good, can you jerk it like I'm giving you a handjob? it's soooo biiig..."

So under the context of pretending to be girls, we each spent a fair amount of time talking about how hot we each were, what great dicks we had, and how much we wanted to suck and fuck each other.

Yes.

And yes, we never physically acted on it, which I regret for its stupidity. At 16 I'm sure beyond a doubt it would have been fine - I think we were each just too chickenshit to push things further.

But I believe I've discovered the cure for Alzheimer's, because I'm certain I will never, ever, ever, ever forget the sight of this 16-year-old straight jock, naked on my parents floor, eyes bulging even more than his dick as he stared at me also jerking off, while girly-voicedly calling me a big-dicked stud and begging me for the hardest fuck I could give.
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I think that some of the replies are too complicated but that may be down to individual psychology.

I did it with my friends as a boy and youth but that was largely experimental and was well before the days of explicit sex media being available.

Those who are in a m/m relationship will do it as a natural course of events. Those who have been (or are still) married will do it as an alternative (or want to) because sex may be seen as better between two people rather than solo.

Masturbating another guy is entertaining as well as sexually stimulating; it does not have to be seen as 'gay'.
It may also have something to do with age or with the fact that it is easier for some men to bring off another guy with masturbating than it is to bring off a woman with fucking.
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UKwankaddict Novice Jackinchatter

87 posts since 2010-02-21
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I believe that with me, it started right after that first time I managed to cum, after wanking endlessly for weeks. That feeling was just awesome, and after that happened, all I could think of was whether my friends were also wanking like me; whether they could cum too; how big their cocks were; and how and when they did it. I needed to see and feel their cocks so I could compare them with mine, and to wank them to check whether I could make them cum. Finding friends who shared the same thoughts wasn't very difficult, and so we frequently experimented with mutual masturbation. I then realised that almost all cocks were very different - in shape, size, feel; the way in which they wanted to be rubbed, and how much and far they cum.

With cocks all being so different, it was fascinating to me because it was always like a new experience when I got to wank off someone else. It never was (and still isn't) something I got bored with. And even though I've tried fucking a few girls (more to see what it's like), that same sensation isn't there, because I feel nearly all girls' pussies are pretty ugly to look at (too much loose flesh!), there isn't very much you can do with them except to stick your dick in them and fuck. I can get just as much satisfaction (if not better) with my hand wrapped around my cock. Maybe other guys who haven't had any (or much) experience with mutual wanking have the same suppressed thoughts about cock as me, and are desperate to try it out.
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71 posts since 2011-07-26
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For me, it happened at a young age. we were both sorta seeing if we were doing it right....but now, its more towards:
1. Feeding off each others hornyness
2. Comparison/Alpha male status
3. You have something in common
4. Its sooooooo HOT to see another guy cum!
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For me, it happened at a young age. we were both sorta seeing if we were doing it right....but now, its more towards:
1. Feeding off each others hornyness
2. Comparison/Alpha male status
3. You have something in common
4. Its sooooooo HOT to see another guy cum!
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Just because it's fun and I love to jo another guy
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strokerbear55 Amateur Jackinchatter

225 posts since 2012-07-03
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I love to jo with other guys. I love to grab their cocks and stroke them til they spurt. I really get turned on watching the cum shoot out of them. I also love to have a guy stroke me off and make me blast my cum load
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