I know it's more common than I think, I've come into the mindset that a relationship can go so wrong that it can end up fucking up your life. I'm not in favor of doing anything that can fuck my life up so....virgin. It brings my self esteem down sometimes. VEry sad.

Yeah its pretty common, lots of people on here probably even lie about having sex, its not really a big deal. when you have it, you have, with whoever you have it with, guy or girl. If you think having sex will somehow fuck up your life, than your probably not ready for it so don't worry. As for relationships fucking up your life, its very difficult for a single one to do that unless you let it. Most things you can come back from.

I have no idea what you actually wanted to come from this thread but hey, that's my piece. Also, protection like a condom can help with many things, like stop babies and STIs, .

I did not fuck a woman until I was 22. But had lots and lots of fantastic orgasms by masturbating. Far better than cumming in a woman.

I lost my virginity at 15 and to this day the best orgasms come from masturbation.

I think this thread is the perfect thing that this site is good for. Everyone sometimes needs to know that others feel the same as they do,have the same thoughts, either have or have not had the same experiences. That is what binds us together. Yeh I was 22 before I had sex. At the time I thought I should have done it before but now I realize not a big deal and I still like my personal time between me and my dick. Stay cool we are more alike than you think

It is nice to know that there are lots of us who not only didnt fuck a woman till later but also prefer to cum by masturbating

I'm still a virgin too, but love cumming through masturbation! Of course I wouldn't turn down the chance to have sex, but right now I honestly don't have time to commit to a relationship, and since I'm not in the habit of hitting on random girls at bars or whatever, for now it's just me and my hand.

I know how you feel though about it bringing down your self esteem. I feel like that sometimes too, like I'm missing something crucial to life that others get to enjoy all the time. But I also agree with the general consensus here, that it'll happen when it happens. Until then, I'll just keep on strokin'

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. I was 22 when I lost mine. But I wouldn't let the fear of failure completely turn you off of seeking out any relationships.

I was 21, barely, my first time. I agree there is no prize for having sex early, especially if it's rushed or sneaky or a random hit on someone.
The most important art is how to have a relationship.

That said, at 22 it is more or less time to start thinking about relationships in a more settled way, and you wouldn't be out of place to consider that sex would eventually be a part of your relationship. Your relationship needs to be strong enough to support it (it can't be the only connection you have) but if it is, you are not too young.

I was a virgin until I was 25- You're doing fine.

I lost mine when I was 18 but love masturbation as much, then again when I was going doggy on this beauty of a blondie I have to say when I blew in her tight wet warm pussy it was amazing gotta love pussy!

I love to cum masturbating but I completely disagree about cumming by jacking off is better. Cumming deep inside a wet pussy, mouth, or tight ass is so much better...
It gets even better when you add multiple people into the mix. The hardest I may have ever came was while fucking a tight pussy while having my balls licked. Great sex is awesome!
But much like others I didn't lose my virginity until 20 so its all good.

I disagree. A womans vagina doesnot caress your penis or touch those places on your cock that you can. You shove it in her and after a few thrusts you have cum. Whereas when you are masturbating yourself you are in control and can last and savour that fantastic moment when your spunk cums.

I did not lose my vaginity untill I was 22 but also could not masturbate to an ejeculation of spunk until I was 17. but I have made up for those couple of lost years masturbating by being able to cum regularly two or three times a day

25, still a virgin. I'll have sex with the woman I love when I'm ready! =) But in the mean time, cumming while masturbating is fantastic enough! =)

Nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age. It's your body, you don't have to do anything with it you don't want. Also, you're thinking long turm, which something so few guys can do. That's why personally I don't really like heavy drinking, cause I don't want anything that's gonna impare my judgement.

If you want, find yourself a jo buddy, or even a female to masturbate with, to relieve the tention. Just be clear about what you do and don't want.

I have to agree with some others here, I've had amazing orgasms through jerking off. Only thing is, I think I set the bar too high. It's so hard for other guys to get me off.