I'm a vigin still at 29. I'm like you sometimes drew879 it brings my self esteem down and there are days i'm so jealous that friends are getting some and I'm not. I do want my first time to be with a women I have feelings for and not just some random, one night stand type thing but at the same time I really want to experience sex.

It's nothing to worry about. I was self conscious about the fact that I left high school a virgin, but looking back I'm really glad that I did. Just makes sure that you don't set up your expectations to high so that losing it won't be good enough for you.

Life isn't perfect, man. Believe me I obsessed over losing my virginity when I was younger. I put all my effort into making losing my virginity absolutely perfect and it didn't work out anything close to how I planned. Obsessing about it is a pretty much guaranteed way to make sure it never happens.

I'm with you on the virginal front. Me being 27. I don't like talking about my sex life with my guy friends cuz of course that's all they talk about.