To most men sex = sex. Most women believe sex = love. So when their husband has sex with another man or woman, then wife feels unloved or abandoned. That's just how most women are raised.

If I could do it over again, the first thing I'd tell any woman I dated was that I was a highly sexual person who is into lots of stuff. Then I'd tell her about all my sexual experiences...ALL of them. If she stayed, great...if she left, I'd jack off...who needs her.

My wife has always seemed "prudish" about M2M fun even though she is admittedly bi! go figure? But recently I found some gay sites that she was looking at on her computer...Hummmmm now how do I break the ice?

I told my wife about my experiences with my best friend while we where dating. She was not thrilled but got to be OK with it. As long as that was it. After we got married I told her about jackinchat and chatting with guys. She has become accepting about that aspect of me. We are very happy and work through everything together.
So far I have been quite happy with fantasies and the internet, more than that only time will tell.