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You have my sympathy. What's the big deal about having some fun. Sharing porn and fantasies while having a good time.
If I lived near you I'd be there, it's the same all over. Good luck. rick

Because when you talk about masturbating with another man, to some guys it sounds good and may turn them on at the time. but when jerkoff day shows up, they back out. stage fright-,it turns them on just to fantasize about jerkinoff with you-,they might have already shot a load and is not in the mood to shoot another, there's so many reasons why!
I WOULD JERKOFF WITH YOU EVERYDAY,ANYTIME,ANYPLACE,IN FRONT OF ANYONE.!

The above attitude mirrors my own totally. So wish we were neighbours buddy.

There are a lot of time wasters out there ..

Most guys are probably afraid that the guy wont be as cool as you warren and will turn out to be some weirdo.

Buddy I've been flaked on and left with nothing a number of times. Just says to me that many many men are curious and wanna - but just can't bring themselves to actually do it. Fear of what someone might say, fear of society and it's messages about men and sex.

Buddy if you say yes - I'm there! Would damn sure enjoy rubbin one off with you.

There are a LOT of guys out there that love the idea of jacking off with a buddy, but actually going through with it for the first time scares the hell out of them. And let's face it, there are some good reasons to be scared.

With a guy like this, I usually suggest that he and I should meet first in a public place...a Starbucks or whatever...just to talk, nothing else. Breaking the ice goes a long way toward defusing those fears. And after the first meeting if there's mutual interest, he and I make arrangements to get together privately for some time.

It takes extra time and effort, but for me the rewards have been worth it.

In my experience, all the invites i get for jerk meets involve blowjobs and more lol. So I have turned them down. Now I just say "Is your wife/GF going to be joining us?" That keeps the guys that want more then just watching each other away. Plus a co-ed masturbation meet sounds way more fun then just two guys.

I've found that some things are actually more exciting in fantasy than in reality, and jerk meets are among them. I just love fantasies of "playing girlfriend" for another guy and helping him ejaculate with my hands or my thighs, but actually doing it doesn't interest me so much any more. (It used to, but the novelty wore off after I actually did it a number of times.) The reason why jerk meets are supposed to be more exciting than just a one-person jackoff, I think, is that it gets you and the other person(s) hotter if you reveal your excitement, and see theirs, than if you don't. But you can do quite a bit of mutual self-revelation with congenial jackers by way of the Internet, and yet back out instantly if an undesirable situation develops, which you can't do if you go to a real-life jerk meet. That's one reason why I, for one, don't go to real-life jerk meets.

its all about the guy, well in my opinion, dudes i meet here are pushy, not interested in conversation, just come over drop your pants.

Shy. I dream about hardcore JO groups, but am so damn shy... Unless drunk.

Had a few jo sessions with other guys and a few where the other guy backed out
There is no prob if they don't wanna go thru with it but he should give u a bit of notice
But for the guys who do man up for a meat its definitely fun
One jo bud I met ended up being a buddy for a dp session with a chick so definitely worth it

I've done a JO meet once and loved it....actually wish I could do one again but there are none that I can find in my area

That's normal. If I had a dollar for ever man or woman who said they wanted to meet up and play, then didn't show or made some excuse as to why they can't, I'd be a wealthy man.

I chalk it up to the fact that not everyone has the same thirst for adventure as I do.