I have fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked in the arse. I’m wanting to hear from people who have fulfilled their fantasies but were disheartened or disappointed after the fact.
Should I keep my fantasies just that ……… fantasies.

My unfulfilled fantasy is to have someone cum in my mouth.
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I wouldn't say keep your fantasies fantasies because you'll never know what you're missing unless you try even if you are disappointed by acting on your fantasy. I would say try it at least a couple times to see if maybe you have to get over the initial shock and fear of the situation.

I had gotten a couple blowjobs from males as a very young teen and enjoyed them, but never as as an adult until a few years ago.I met a gay guy on the internet and after talking through quite a few emails I went to his house and we played strip pool to "break the ice". Loser had to remove a piece of clothing so this led to a long slow strip. I purposely tried to lose often (without being too obvious) to hasten the process. I purposely saved my t-shirt as the last piece of clothing so I could "strut" around in front of him naked from the waist down. I thought this might help to enhance the mood. After losing and removing my last remaining stitch of clothes he suggested that we retire to his bed where it was more comfortable. Although the situation was exciting and exhilarating I was still flaccid at this point. I was lying on my back on his bed completely naked and spread eagle. He crawled up between my legs and put my flaccid penis in his mouth and started sucking. It felt very good, but because of my repressed guilt feelings I still remained soft. He was patient and determined to make me cum in his mouth so he kept diligently working my cock with his mouth. Finally after a long period of coaxing I began to get erect and then exploded into his waiting mouth. I never really became fully erect, but still had a descent orgasm and he milked ever last drop of my cum with his mouth. The experience was not as enjoyable as I would have hoped because of my feelings of shame and guilt, but I would love to give it another try and see if maybe it was just him or maybe the shock of the experience. I got dressed, thanked him and then left. We still talk, but he's never sucked my cock again even though he would if I let him. So yes I was slightly set back and disappointed by this experience.

I had fantasys of sucking cock before I ever did and was quite nervous luckily for me my fantasy played out even better than I could have dreamt, I wrote about it in the "first time a guy came in your mouth thread" but the next few meetings I had were very disappointing, and nothing like how I used to picture it while I jerked off. But I persisted mainly because because my first time was so good. I learnt the type of guys I like the play with and started to make my meet ups more like my fantasys. That being said my advice would be to go for it, you will regret not doing stuff like this . Your first time may disappoint you for whatever reason, a few people I know didn't enjoy their first time because of nerves or being confused about their sexuality or other personal issues. After the second or third meet (especially if it's with a play mate you get on with/know well) you'll feel relaxed and be able to let yourself go and enjoy yourself. I

I've never been with another woman. But I always fantasized about having a MMF. I did have a couple and it was hot, but not as hot as I had dreamed of. I really wished they had been with two bi guys. Because I would have loved to watch them share their cocks and then join in. I love bi men and would have loved to watch them kiss and touch each other. Not being afraid of accidently touching the other like two hetero men. My suggestion to some of you even if you're curious is to have a MMF with a bi guy even if you're straight. It might break the ice.

A strip pool/poker whatever game would be really fun. Now I have a serious bf and we are exclusive so I'm glad I got my chances before, but I really wish they had been with bi or curious open guys like you.

If I'm into having a MMF w/ guys sucking each other or us taking turns it might make it more fun. Also if you have a woman and a man they can always blindfold you and you'll never know who's going down on you.

What do you guys think?
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well I can relate my experience for you and you can decide for yourself what you should do. I had been fantasizing about cock sucking for a few years. I had been emailing an organizer of a jack-off-group that had since stopped meeting. He was receptive to a mutual jack session so I went. We had talked about maybe it going further but we'll see. I was rock hard and he wasn't. It wasn't due to desire...it was his age and blood pressure meds. I was really disappointed. He was a helluva cock sucker though and after he was done sucking, I stroked and came sooo hard. About a year later, I hooked up with a different guy...we went the same route...lets start with some jacking and see where it goes. I'm not a size queen or anything, but I was hoping he'd be a tad bigger then he was. We started stroking and then I reached for his cock and started playing. It wasn't long before I had my first taste of a hard cock. Soon we were in a 69...and it felt great, sucking his cock while mine was getting attention. Soon he said he was going to cum and I wouldn't let go and swallowed his load. It was neither good or bad tasting. He then vigorously worked my cock until I blew my load down his throat...and continued to suck and milk all the cum from my cock. The experience was fantastic. That was about a month or so ago...and I'm hoping to hook up again this week.

So I guess for me, the first experience didn't live up to my expectations, but I did learn something important. One, not to give up..and two, for me, gay sex is all about the cock...mine and his...I want to touch it...lick it, suck it, make it cum. When I'm with a woman, I'm much more concerned with both her physical and emotional satisfaction.

great advice Pick me Pick me LOL

sucking a soft cock is not bad at all.

Many reasons a person may have ED but that does not mean they don't enjoy a BJ and can cum