I was dating a cute little Asian girl for around a year, but despite some truly wonderful sex, she could be incredibly immature. She was prone to throwing tantrums, pouting and often creating problems where none really existed.

She broke up with me over something insignificant, but wanted to get back together within a couple weeks -- as though she was teaching me a lesson.

I didn't bite.

I figured as much as I liked her and enjoyed the sex, she simply wasn't worth the trouble. It's been over a couple months now, and we're still not together.

We talk all the time, though, and one of the things we invariably wind up talking about is sex, which is very frustrating because sexually, we could not be more in tune. We both have a lot of dirty desires.

She loves to masturbate and loves knowing I do it, too. We've got off together looking at porn online and in person, which was always hot, and she had even suggested we invite a couple other guys to masturbate with us and then have them cum on her face.

We talked threesomes and foursomes a lot -- men, women, t-girls -- and she is very into the idea of being fucked by more than one dick. She still tells me how awesome it would be to take multiple loads on her face after a hard fuck and suck session.

And as if that's not enough she's also into girls, loves dressing slutty and gets really into fucking on camera.

Sexually -- she seems like the perfect mate -- and after texting with her about a variety of dirty topics today, I finally started thinking maybe the sex trumps her other faults. We have mostly gotten along as friends and we both still want to have sex with the other -- and she has made it clear she wants to be together. Today she complained that if we hadn't broken up, there's a good chance we'd have done some of the things we fantasized about together and we'd be having awesome sex.

So my question, stupid though it may be, is -- DOES the great sex make up for the other stuff? Is it worth trying to work through that stuff to have what would be a pretty amazing sexual relationship that is likely going to be hard to replicate with another woman?

You just answered your own question about getting back together in a relationship with her, "Stupid it may be..."

Frankly even before the question. Her vamped up sexual openness even more after you broke up was a red flag. I would see a red flag w/ anyone who broke up and their gf tried to get back together using sex as a weapon.

You do NOT want to be involved w/ an emotional 5 year old girl. Trust me. I'm a woman. Also, what if you did fulfill one of the fantasizes? What if she lost it completely?

I'm talking about something SERIOUS. What if she accused you of rape? I'l tell you this "little girl" would call the cops and have you arrested. I can tell she is a fake crier.

I'm not a man so I can't tell you whether or not to bate to her. I hope some of the sexy men on here, but I would MOVE THE FUCK ON AND CUT YOUR ENTIRE CONNECTION!! Fantasies and all... Watch some really good hot porn. You can always get recommendations here. My opinion choose hotties who don't look a thing like her. Find a hot amazon with big tits or a sexy redhead... something completely different. If you still want Asian please go watch Asia Carrera that woman knows what she's doing.

I wish you the best! Fingers crossed you met and have a NEW relationship w/ a mature slutty woman.
Anal

To be honest after reading your post i woundn't.

She sounds perfect sexually and you said yourself that you guys are really in tune in that department. But a relationship is about more than just sex. You say she's immature and throws tantrums and you have to remember that that's why you aren't back with her. Sex is one thing but you sound as though you can't actually put up with her on a personal every day life level.

I wouldn't be looking to get back with her but judging by how close you guys are, I wonder about a friends with benefits kind of thing, if you're into that. You never know, she could change but for now, reading between the lines in your post, you're both very sexually orientated and it's perhaps the sex you both miss more than anything.

I think you know that you wouldn't want to get into a relationship with her again unless she had changed. It's a no brainer for me. You can't value your relationship by quality of sex.

Thanks, both of you.

I actually had some interaction with her today that totally put me off the idea. FWB would likely be a huge mistake in this instance. I think I just need to do as Anal suggested and completely focus my attention elsewhere.

Been there, done that.

Dated a girl 5 years because she rocked my world, but she was crazy. RUN away!!

Wise words indeed,bravo

Fantastic sex does not make up for all the other things missing in the long run. You're doing the right thing by not rehooking up. As my wife says, "Don't think with the wrong head!"

And she's exactly right, Berndt!

It's for the best, obviously, but I will definitely miss her wildness in the sack. The other stuff? Not so much.

Yeah it definitely sounds like she is trying to manipulate you with sex. And it sounds like she has been somewhat successful since you two talk so much. Best to wean her off you.