Hey guys~
This is a question for anyone, mostly for you frequent jackers who have a significant other.

I was wondering if you think that you are less interested in sexual intercourse with your partner because you jack off a lot?

Would anyone choose jacking-off (alone) over sex with your partner? If so, why?
Thanks~

Nope. Definitely not less interested in intercourse because I jack a lot. For me, they're two completely separate concepts. I'm trying to think of how best to explain what I mean, but I'm just not sure how.

And, no...sex with my partner would definitely win out over jerking off.

Good question, secret. I'm sure as hell not less interested in my partner because I occasionally jerk off. She can make my wee-wee dance as well as I can! It's scary how well she knows my cock. I have jerked off her before and she'll writhe with delight and have several orgasms before I finish in her mouth. She swallows every single drop and licks her lips and moans, "yummmm".

Yeah, I'll take intercourse over solo. But I think the important thing is the interaction between two partners who are totally in tune with each other and are aware and receptive of the others' needs and wants. When you can't get close enough to the other and you just want to crawl inside her being, then, damn dude, you found nirvana!

Just my 2 cents.

Sex has an emotional impact in a romantic relationship, so sex and masturbation serve two different purposes. Masturbation is great for release when your partner isn't in the mood; and of course it's a sensual pleasure of its own. Sex is great as just a sensual pleasure; and of course it can be a great way of assuring the emotional bond in the relationship.

So sometimes, yes, I'd probably just prefer to jerk off; unless she really wants to have sex, in which case I'd be happy to be intimate with her. As much as I greatly prefer intercourse as the "main event" in a loving relationship, I'd rather feel a variety of sensations: fellatio (receiving), cunnilingus (giving), manual (giving or receiving), everything.

Getting pleasure from my own hand is to me a valid part of my sexuality, and I'd rather keep it a small but significant part of it. I'll probably do it a lot, lot less than during bachelorhood -- but it would still be there. I don't think I would ever actually give up sex with my lover in favor of jerking off if we were both horny, but there's always the rare possibility of it happening. I don't think of sex as a responsibility, per se, but human interaction is (within limits)generally better than isolation, so if it'll help encourage the relationship to fuck or make love (two different things, of course), then I'll probably forgo my hand.

Now this doesn't include the possibility that she wants me to jerk off in front of her, like she's my very own personal centerfold. (Yum.)

I definitely prefer intercourse over jacking. Having said that, I was a jacker when I was single and I have been a regular jacker all through my 50 years of marriage.

I have found the more I jack, the more I want. And, the more I screw, the more I want.

To me, although jacking and screwing are closely related, they are two different things.

If I had to choose one over the other. Sex with the wife would win every time.

I do jackoff a lot....but it certainly doesn't make me less interested in sex with my partner. Nothing is better than sharing our bodies in the most intimate sexual experiences. Apart from all the forms of intercourse, we also like mutual masturbation. She gives me a "hand job" and I do the same to her. We both know each other's buttons and how to push them for maximum effect.

But I'll always enjoy solitary masturbation. I can deliver feelings to my penis that are different than I get by putting it in my partner. Riding the edge, while gently working the "sweet spot", aroused by pornography and maybe feeling the vibrations from an anal vibrator, is an entirely different experience. And one that I enjoy a lot.

Well so far it's interesting to know that most of you don't seem to let your jackin get in the way of sex with your partner. Anyone else have input on this one?

What Sex?

Being a person who does jack off quite frequently, I don't believe I am any LESS interested in sex because of that. Now, although I currently don't have a partner, if the opportunity presented itself, I would definitely opt for sex over masturbating. And yes, I do realize that might be because I have gone without sex for so long. LOL

I am definately more interested in sex with my partner because of jacking off. Sometimes after sex my wife falls asleep and I'll rub one out thinking about how hot the sex just was. I prefer intercourse the most, there is just nothing that feels that good, but nobody else makes my dick feel the way I can!

I usually masturbate about once per day. But we also have sex once or twice a day after two years of dating. Sex also provides me great stimulation for erotic thoughts during masturbation. My only complaint if I can call it that is that I don't come as hard (shoot very far, or have much quantity) if I've recently masturbated. Although, sex always seems to produce orgasms that shoot past her head that masturbation can't seem to produce.

Both have advantages over the other. But the best of both together is what I prefer. My wife and I masturbate together often, we both like the pleasure from masturbation and watching each other getting closer to climax is very exciting. If I had to chose one or the other tho I would chose sex with my wife , Lucky for me I don't have to tho. We have really enjoyed masturbating together for a few years now. We never did that together before then.
I just made a run to the sex toy store this afternoon and bought a new vibrator for my wife as a surprise tonight. She just recently has expressed and intrest in trying one and she will not go into a store so I did it for her as a surprise. I hope everything works out ok, just the idea of watching her use it turns me on.

Sex with a partner is awesome and fantastic. Jacking off is a great supplement!

I haven't found it to be any difference. I still like intercourse as much as I like jacking, because it is with someone special to me and I like giving her as much pleasure as I also receive.

I don't think that wanking frequently makes me any less interested in sex with my wife than if I didn't stroke mmyself. I do find that my orgasms are more intense when I wank than when I fuck but the overall sexual experience is better when I'm with my wife