has anyone met a like minded guy online as a J/O buddy and met in real like to jack? the idea sounds cool and exciting but also the thought of really doing it kinda freaks me out.

also, where would you meet the person/ find someone like minded? craigslist?

I used to chat guy from here
Did phone then when I visited his city for work
we meet at my hotel for some afternoon fun
very hot..........it was my 1st m2m encounter since i was early 20's

I have, very nerve wrecking first time, but once you get comfortable...lots of fun with a liked minded guy.

Took a while but Craiglist worked for me

I have as well. Yes, the first few minutes may be awkward and a bit nervous. Remember why you're both there, be comfortable, maybe meet for drinks first, throw in some porn and do what you've been doing online.... I'm pretty sure you'll enjoy it. If it's too much, shake hands and go back to online, nobody hurt, right?

I've used craigslist with great success, Manhunt, adam4adam...and a few buds from here at JC

Met a guy on WifeLover's chat room. Turns out he lived few blocks away. After JO on cam and chatting about our wives and porn in general for a few weeks, he came by my place one morning for a session. It is nerve wracking at first but once you get started it's fun. Done it a few times since and now looking to add some more folks to join in.