Was wondering how many married men out there play/sex with other men on the side? Does u wife know? Find myself close to this situation tux!

I do and wife knows

I do when traveling on business. Maybe 6-8 times a year. Wife does NOT know. You just need to be very discreet and get to know and trust the person before you exchange any personal information. I assume my guys are like me and have several email addresses with a fake name on the profile that we use for stuff like this. Makes it a lot easier and you can easily get a new email if some guy stalks you or something. NEVER use an email with your real name for something like this until you really know the other person.

Good advice never thought about staking and do have other emails.

I had some very discrete fun with a married buddy of mine - want to do that again, but I also have a "play email acount" and use another name ... would love to find a goodsane married bud to explore with again .. and not ruin the marriage !! - any Rochester area guys "out there" - also travel on occasion for business, so there has to be some more of us "out there" -

i have and wife does not know but no regular bud and not in a long time

I fooled around with guys before getting married. Now it is only online--even though the wife has refused all sex for nigh on 7 years. I would have real sex with a guy if I could get away with it.

I like to stroke with other guys and wife knows I like it and have done it but doesn't know I'm on here. lol

I do have always done it and always will decreet though she don't know

Similar here. I have before the wife entered the picture, but no since. In theory, I wouldn't be opposed to it, but not sure I'd be able to bring myself to go through with it while she's in the picture. So, I make do with online these days. She knows I've done it in the past, knows I surf and jerk (even endorses it), but doesn't know that I sometimes surf and jerk to/with guys.

yes and no way

Do some when I am travelling. Important thing is to keep names and phone numbers out of it unless you really know and trust the other guy. Married and she has no idea, but I don't see it as cheating? Is this wrong?

I have before marriage. Now its online only. Id probably find more opportunities to do it if she refused sex. Not to get biblical but she agreed on that day to take care of and satisfy her man just as I did her. If she refused that promise it is the same as cheating to me.

Needless to say im still getting it at home so its not a problem. She doesnt know I jerk with guys online but would most likely be understanding if I could muster up the balls to tell her haha

That's kinda how I feel about it, philadude. Now, unlike you, our sex life has all but dried up, but it's due to medical issues beyond her control, and her libido has recently taken a slight upturn.

Although, in an odd twist of fate, I'm traveling for work and am relatively near my old jackin bud. We'd planned to get together tonight, but Mother Nature is keeping him home. So, looks like the 'verse is helping me to keep that promise. :-)

I have a few times and enjoyed it, sure would like to find a regular j/o bud.Check out my profile pic of me and the first guy I "played" with. good times. Wife doesn't know!