I am curious about the act of prostate massage. I do on occasion have problems with my prostate and have heard this a pleasurable and healthy way of possibly alleviating the problem. Any advice on what model of prostate massager to purchase for a beginner?

I'd recommend the Aneros (aneros.com). They have awesome products.

I find that the Aneros is the best. Have bought others similar but just does not hit the mark right. Feels great and gives me great, intense orgasms, if taking the time and used hands free. I do digital prostate massage on some of my buddies and they enjoy mine better then the Aneros but will use one if I'm not available. The human touch means a great deal i think.

I would like to have one of you use your cock to massage mine.

I have tried prostate massage with my wife and alone with a prostate massager and found it not the great orgasm I have heard happens to me it was more a pain in the ass.

I have tried a few anal toys, and i know that some hit my prostate and i get a strange feeling from it. Its kind of pleasurable and arousing, but not enough to make me cum on its own. I really love dildo play for the euphoria i feel with my arse being stretched, and i'll take a 11 inch long - 2.1/2 inch diameter dildo up the arse all the way. Having a dildo in my arse all the way gives me extreme soft cock and lots of precum, but only a couple of days ago i managed to wank myself to orgasm (whilst i was c2c with an older gentleman, who encouraged me to keep wanking despite soft-cock), and i did have an very massive, very intense orgasm (with a semi- erect cock) BUT what i found amazing was that I did not ejaculate any jizz. The orgasm was the most intense one i ever had, and felt almost like i would pass out, whilst sitting on my 11 inch didlo to the hilt.

So although I don't personally get pleasure from direct prostate stimulation on its own, it certainly does something to heighten orgasms to the point that I wish to keep doing it as much as i like fucking my fiancee.

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I strongly recommend prostate massage for all guys. It's healthy and highly pleasurable . I was in my 20's the first time I had one given by a girlfriend who did indeed know what she was doing. It was so wonderful I will never forget that first one.
Now, what must be remembered is there are correct ways and incorrect ways of doing this so do some research before you delve into it.
As far as massage aids I recommend lube (of course)and then maybe an Aneros. A person with a nice long finger in glove works well too as long as they know how to gently and effectively massage the prostate. The key here is that it's highly pleasurable and most people respond with powerful erections and of course at the proper time the most wonderful ejaculations you've ever had. Note: if at any time there is pain , STOP because there is something wrong either in technique or otherwise. This is an intensely wonderful experience and should never ever involve any pain.

Having a dry orgasm isn't unusual. It allows for male multiple orgasms! I didn't know about it, until it happened to me. A very experienced girlfriend using a vibrator/dildo/strap-on combination, gave me 7!!! orgasms. The final one being probably the most awesome ejaculation of my life. It was one massive long squirt rather than several smaller ones!

I play with my ass with several different toys. From medium sized to huge. I even have a prostate massager but I have had no luck in having an orgasm. I'd love to experience it. Regardless, I love fucking my ass with my dildos. Feels so good. Having a prostate orgasm would be the icing on the cake.

I use an aneros maximus. It definitely hits the spot. It rubs up and down by moving my sphincter which feels amazing. It makes me rock hard and pre cum like crazy. I've had a few small dry orgasms and it keeps getting better the more I use it. I have only had it for a couple of months. Even when I don't dry orgasm it's still very pleasurable to use for up to two hours. Then I'll jerk off and have an intense ejaculation. I'm thinking about getting a larger model.

it baffles and saddens me when just about all porn with ass play never seems to intentionally slap on the lube. nothing gets up me without plenty to make it slide ....

yes i love ass play and hitting my internal g-spot, its a tiny area that takes some careful manouvering to locate / maximise. every morning after a good shit i start thinking ... etc and luckily four mornings outa seven its home alone.

the arse play ie slim plastic friend up my ass generally comes at the second or third orgasm, i need a full two hours of play and trawling for porn to get me to cum, that was the advantage of mags in the old days, got me off quick.

a finger is nice tooo but always seems just too short for full effect, maybe its body position here at the computer I need to modify.

generally I alternate a couple of strokes inside me with a couple of hard really slow strokes of my cock, often / usually tied my balls n cock to enhance etc ... and i get real deep hard spunkings out of it.

preserve yr asshole .. LUBE LUBE LUBE .... i use hand cream so wifey cannot easily detect its been playtime ....