This always happens after i enjoy a long, edged-out wank to some hot shemale porn or a porn scene of a hot teen sucking on a big black cock. I feel so disgusted with myself even though i know that i will be doing the exact same thing again in no time, sometimes even a few hours later. Is this just because i've been raised to believe that those things are wrong? (i'm a lot more open-minded now because of porn) but i can't seem to shake off the guilt i feel every time i'm done blowing my load to anything really kinky.

Guilty about what, exactly? Who have you hurt? Who's been damaged by your actions?

You're still young (no offense intended) and I'm guessing you were brought up in a religious home. It'll take some time to shake off those teachings, but it will happen.

Who cares what other people think - and , by the way, those other people are secretly wanking as well! Physiologically and psychologically wanking is good for you - ask the experts!

Next time you're about to blow your load - if those people and those teachings cross your mind, shout "FUCK 'EM!" as you let the spunk fly!

Keep practising and you'll soon be free.

All the best to you . . . and happy wanking!

Guilt is fascinating, especially in this context. In a strange way it even seems to enhance the experience. You have to find that point where it is just almost too much for you, where you are guilty enough to feed fully on your disgust but not enough to stop. Remember that guilt is social/cultural but lust is natural, and a few thousand years of social conditioning is no match for millions of years of evolution. Guilt may be strong but the libido is stronger.

Well jmartin,
I think if you have had much religion in you younger life that might be some of it. I had a feeling like that when I was in my late 20's and clear on into my 30's but it kind of came back and forth. It basically you mind over matter. The things that excit us verses the things that are just on the reverse side. ( right from wrong more to speak ). I think that has a lot to do with it. I have 2 nephews that are up in their early 30's that where raised in-a very stricked religious home and they were into all kinds of wildness, girls, porn, smoking the wild weeds, the whole 9 yards. They turned out to be good adults and awesome parents. So I just think it all in how you view your life and the things in it. Hope this helps if need more drop me a PM I think my mail box had room. Good luck young friend.

Heck jmartin, I have even chatted on here with Christian men of a church before and I was so surprised to read they likes and habits kind of caught me off guard on so many of them j/I and enjoying porn, even some told me they had kinky ideas while in church services. Now if that don't get ya to thinkin nothing will. We all have, peters, cocks, dicks, winkies, weiners, you names that toy between your legs just about anything you would like. I call mine my little buddy, because I had a young girl friend when I was in my later 20's that she called my cock get little play toy and named it ( Hermey ) her little Peter buddy. So I hope these things have easied your feelings some. I am a windy dude also. Enjoy your weekend my chat/jackin friend.

Thanks carpntr, i do have a religious background and agree that it is the things that some people think is morally "wrong" that excite us, but you're right, it is mind over matter, like frostee_cold said "a few thousand years of social conditioning is no match for millions of years of evolution". Monkee: i will practice your advice, sounds like fun. You guys have made me feel a lot better about my situation.

Hey jmartin,
Always glad to help a young man out. You know this old world needs more people that care about one another a lot more than they do. I guess being a retire old fart like I am does give me a lot more free time to set around and check things out here at J/C. I started working at a young age of 16 at a good paying job, before that is way yard work for neighbors. So there way alway many that had tons of good freebie advice. But the best advice always comes from the heart if we just stop and take a few minutes to share with others. You will always have a friend that will alway be willing to talk and answer anything you might need or want to chat about if you need an older guy to trust in, I am only a click away on the boards.
One good thing is for sure, I have never had any of the fellows on the boards lead me astray on these matters so far, might get someone upset about some of the conversation fellows get to talking about.

Thanks carpnter, i will keep that in mind.

this is the life of the homosexuals. guilt. lol no wonder why so many of them commit suicide. not that i'm suggesting you blow your head off or jump off a bridge or hang yourself. lol.
i'm jerking off to taylor swift for the third time today with no guilt.. because i'm normal. girls are cool.

It has nothing to do with homosexuality. It has to do with societies fucked up views on sex.

Sex is not love. Sex doesn't require a "relationship". Why is it totally accepted to get a massage from a licensed massage therapist who rubs and gives pleasure to every inch of your body but the instant they touch your cock it's prostituition?

That makes no sense. Why is it accepted to hold hands in public, yet you can't jerk a guy off? What makes skin on one body part more unacceptable than another?

When it comes to sex, there is nothing to feel guilty about unless you are harming yourself or someone else. Masturbation is normal and healthy. Looking at porn is only harmful if it keeps you from having normal relationships.

Don't worry about labels. I've had sex with men, women, and everything in between and enjoyed every second of it. Don't limit yourself based on the choices of others.

Lol You do know that you're replying to a thread about a dude jerking off, right? Maybe you're not as "normal" as you think you are This forum is for OPEN-MINDED people, not morons like you who want to attack people who like to experiment sexually. Maybe you should be the one who blows your head off or jumps off a bridge or hangs yourself? P.S. Taylor Swift is flat-chested, if you were a REAL MAN like me you'd be jerking off to a big titty babe like Kate Upton.

Don't worry.... "Post-masturbation guilt" is natural. It's just how our minds and bodies work.

Thanks slostroker & drsexy369, but i doubt that Shit For Brains AKA celebrigasman will understand those points you made. I appreciate your reply's though.

I was raised a Catholic and I don't recall the nuns or priest talking about sex but I did deduce that anything that gave you pleasure must be sinful (so Guilt) I never felt guilt about jerking off just felt good.

Personally, I certainly was taught my parents' sense of right and wrong for sexual behaviour and expected morals. But I was never taught that masturbation was wrong or sinful - and although I do think there are actions with other people that are wrong, I have never thought that masturbation was wrong - and never felt guilty after. I do get guilt feelings from some of my internet interactions. But our arms are the length they are for a reason. And I enjoyed, learned how and have continued masturbation throughout life without the need really for others to be part of it - and therefore without guilt.

For someone who does feel guilt, it may well be because that was an early teaching, or because of the sneaking we all have done to keep it private. But as dr.sexy369 said, it seems to be the way we are. It may relate to the same reason we want to eat our cum, and then when the spasms have happened that desire is gone. It may be a function of no longer needing to continue at that moment. I'm no expert, just a man who has been jerking off for over 50 years.