Yeah add me to the list. I'm too chicken to try it so the conditions would have to be perfect and we'd have to get to know each other well.

I know exactly how you feel. I've been wrestling with this fantasy for a few years now, but still haven't figured out how to find someone "safe" who isn't promiscuous. I still yearn to experience stroking a nice, hard cock other than my own. I still want to wrap my lips around the swollen head of an erect cock and slowly slide my mouth up and down until it explodes and I still want to experience that warm cum splashing against the back of my throat.

Risk is present in everything we do.

Find a nice married guy (there are lots of us) and play away. I've got no diseases and I've had dozens of cocks in my mouth. Guess I know how to pick 'em.

Risk is present always but there's no reason you can't minimize the risk to create a happier situation for yourself. Each to their own though. I wouldn't be able to suck a random guy and wouldn't want to suck countless guys. I'd rather one male FWB sort of thing rather than get around. That's just me though. For me, it requires a lot of trust.

I did a lot of cock sucking when I was very young and also in my teens and I loved every moment of it. It was pre AIDS days and it was always with friends I had known for some years. Then I was out of the scene for around 20 years, but always wanted to get back to cock sucking again, but the major problem, if you don't know the person that well, is that you have absolutely no way of knowing their sexual health status. So, even though I would dearly love to suck and swallow again, it won't happen....or not unless one of my mates of many years turns out to be up for it. Troutdog, as for your experience, well it often happens that something you have fantasized about doesn't turn out to be as good in real life. But as for this bloke filming you, well that is the act of a low cunt indeed. If I were in your place, I would let this guy know, in no uncertain terms, that any trouble he causes me with this vid, will be paid back 10 fold on him. Short of murder, you can't stop this guy from using this vid if he chooses to do so...but you can sure as hell make him regret doing it.

I have been sucking on & off for years. I love the feel of a cock spurting in my mouth.

That's my ultimate dream. I'd love to have a bud I was friends with outside of my servicing his cock. Someone who could come hang out at my house and not raise any suspicion from my wife.

Couldn't have said it better myself! Probably like winning the lottery though

Seems like the problems we all have is in FINDING like-minded friends! Is there any way, or something that we could do or say, that would let other like-minded guys know that we would be interested - that non-interested people wouldn't catch on to?

Would really love to find someone with experience this with...

I had a really good J/O bud... we did alot together, and we had been friends for awhile...he is no longer around.. but you are right tough to find a good one who is safe, clean and on the same level as you...
CL is not the best of places to experience this..I think you have to know someone a lilte to make it good and enjoyable...but it is tough to find.

Indeed.

I've been friends with a guy for over 45 years, during which time the subject of sex had come up in our conversation no more than a half-dozen times, if that. About a year ago we found ourselves at his place when his wife was away for the weekend and the subject not only came up but then went: a discussion of porn -> watching some porn -> getting cocks out to stroke -> him offering me a hand -> me accepting -> him diving on my cock and sucking me off. The whole thing was completely unexpected but an extremely pleasant surprise.

It turns out that he used to stroke and suck with a school friend up until he discovered girls. He hadn't touched anyone else's cock since then, the closest he'd got being getting a semi with another guy in a hotel gym shower. The guy had told him his room number and left but my friend hadn't followed up on it.

Don't give up hope. Your best mate might be longing to get his hand and mouth around your cock, never imagining that you feel the same. Watch for an opening...

Where in NJ are you? NW NJ here. Might be able to help you with that!

I found a guy on Craigslist. After emailing back and forth over several days, we met in a parking lot. We both liked what we saw and went to a hotel. All I was wanting to do was mutual jacking. He was sitting on the edge of the bed, I kneeled down in front of his hard dick and started jacking him. About 30 seconds after I started jacking him, I was sucking him. WOW. ended up swallowing all of his cum. Wish I could find him and do it again.