i've met5 guys on CL. A couple were nice but not my type. I sucked and jacked with all of them. am repeating with one. No problems other than not really attracted to some of them.

I have to admit, I had a few drinks before I finally agreed to meet someone, and took a bottle of wine round, but luckily he was laid back, no pressure, we each wanked for a while then I steeled myself and just went down on him...and it was fantastic...thoroughly enjoyed it. I think a calm atmosphere and non pushiness is the key early on...oh and wine!

Yes I think them stories about Craig's list ads are pretty darn scary, I know they have a great deal of news coverage on the major news networks all over the USA about different people being either killed or stocked from folks they had met with or ads they had answered. Life is to short for things to go wrong in a matter of seconds and ones life is then over, leaving lived ones other family members and friends to wonder why you are no longer with them. So coming from a country hick that sees folks from the bigger cities and spots better to be safe than sorry. Watch what you might get into.

Ok guys, I went to the meeting and it had its good and bad points!

Arrived at the street address he gave me, gave the guy a call, and luckily I was 20 feet from his door.
Going in the door I was pretty nervous, having read some of these posts! Would I be met with 5 heavies ready to blackmail/beat me up for cash? Well first impressions were very good.

He was a slim, fit guy in his mid 30's. He was fastidiously clean and smelled like roses! His appartment was immaculate. Everything was in its place and very minimalist. A huge LED TV hung on the wall above the fireplace. This was like no straight single dude's house I've ever been in! So yeah, a gay guy! Not surprising really.

He had a MAC setup on the coffee table with pornhub ready and waiting. We exchanged some pleasantries about the weather (hot) and then he asked what I wanted to watch. We picked some MMF and laid back on his big sofa. After 3 minutes nothing was happening so I said "mind if I loose the pants" and threw my jeans and boxers on the floor. He slid down his shorts to reveal a very impressive erect cock, probably 8 inch, though I didnt have my tape!

And now for the bad part. As I was in uncharted territory, I hadnt bargained on stagefright. So as much as I was trying to get into the porn, I was playing snooker with a piece of string! After 10 minutes, still nothing. Pretty embarassing! He had cottoned onto it and asked if I wanted a different video. We changed it to Sophie Dee (I mean who couldnt get a boner to Sophie!) I asked him if he was into girls like her or slimmer and he just said "Yep, shes fine" like a true disinterested gay guy!

Things were looking like petering out so I grabbed the bull by the horns so to speak. I asked him if I could stroke it. He was happy to let me. So I wrapped by hand around this big pulsing cock and it felt..... immense. Always wanted to see what working a big dick would be like and it didnt disappoint! It was like a wide tubular bar, actually tough to get my fingers around. I worked it for 5 minutes while we silently watched porn!

Then I went really crazy with lust. I never thought I would suck a complete strangers cock with no protection but thats what I was doing 2 minutes later. I just asked him if it was ok, he laid back further and slid his shorts down to expose his balls. I leaned over on the sofa, grabbed the base of his shaft and slid it into my mouth. It felt....amazing. A real case of something so wrong feeling so right! lol - He was so long, I was able to jerk him with one hand while going as deep as I could. I could only get down halfway. When I felt his cockhead go beyond my tonsils, I was in heaven.

It was kind of like an outer body experience, popping this saliva covered cock in and out of my mouth, sliding the foreskin all the way back and then all the way up over the glans. Couldnt believe I was doing it! Then I just did my "years of watching porn" routine i.e licking the length of the shaft, smearing my lips with my own spit from the head of his cock, trying to gag on it. lol. I went to town. I told him to warn me if he was going to cum, but he seemed pretty unphased by the whole thing and assured me he wasnt near climax! This wasnt his first rodeo as they say!

So after what seemed like ages worshipping this immense penis, I sat up, a bit dazed! He then said he was tight on time (which I had known going in) and that maybe we should call it a day. I was getting into it but the man had spoken!
So after glass of water to wash out the taste of cock, hah im a whore, I bid him adieu!

I hope he'll have me back, cos I would really like to blow a load after doing something like that. I think he was after a supremely confident experienced dude. But who knows, we'll see. Im just glad I manned up and saw it through.

Glad to hear the meet went well!

Ideally, wouldn't it be great if there was a company that helped you meet up with other guys to JO with, but everyone was vetted so that you wouldn't risk being dead in someone's trunk? Kindof like the eHarmony of jerking. I'm sure guys would pay for that, but I don't know if there would be enough to make it profitable.

And maybe a system to ensure reasonable amount of discretion.

Glad it went well, although a gay guy prob not the right first timer lol. But onto the next wankmate

As a gay guy guess he was a bit disappointed May be better to try and find a Bi guy next time although with craigslist it does seem to be rather hit and miss. Still you have learnt what you really like and probably will looking for more of the same Best of luck !

I've been using craigslist for years, and the biggest problem I find is the number of timewasters who simply have no intention of meeting in the first place. I too have heard some of the horror stories but to be fair there is a reason they are in the news - they are extremely rare incidents and hence newsworthy. As others have said use common sense such as meeting in public first.

I have met countless guys over the years and two girls from CL specifically. One of the girls I ended up meeting repeatedly for a month before she ended it, and the other was a one night stand. With the guys I met there were a few that I just didn't click with and some who were simply liars - but there were others who I got on really well with and we had exactly the same interests.

I've actually found it is more difficult in recent years to meet people on CL than it used to be. I have only been on this site a relatively short time and have had two successful meets already, so my advice would be to stick to this forum.

Nice!

Wish you could have gotten him off. There is nothing quite like the feel and taste of a guy cumming in your mouth. Especially a hung guy when his already big cock head swells and releases that first squirt then pulses as he shoots the rest.

Thanks guys. Yeah I'm pretty pleased with myself even if I didnt get to shoot a load.

Yeah a gay guy wasnt really the best idea. He obviously had done this lots of times and was unnervingly confident! Plus, despite telling me he was a porn freak, he wasnt too sure about how to get the stuff he liked on his "favourite site", and hadnt a clue about any pornstars! Haha, so yeah, he was hoping for something else. Im pretty sure had I been in the company of a guy who was really into the porn and was abit nervous like myself, I would have loosened up more.

Still though, Im delighted I didnt slink out without achieving anything. I could not have asked for a better cock to suck. Big, meaty, clean as a bar of soap and tasted like perfume!

I emailed him to say second time will be the charm, but he hasnt replied. I wouldnt blame him I guess! I think I would be alot more relaxed the next time though. Ah well, onto the next one!

Everyone saying "hey, glad to hear it went well",....um,...didn't he start with the fact he couldn't get a hard on no matter what? Watching porn, seeing a big dick next to him being jerked, and lastly stroking and sucking that big dick.

And maybe I missed it but I didn't read that he ever got hard during any of that.

I'd be bummed out when I left.

Nothing worse in my book than performance anxiety. It's happened to me and I hated it.

Performance anxiety is a very human thing, everyone experiences it from time to time, and the best way to deal with it is to shrug it off and have a good time anyway. Which is just what the OP did. You could learn a thing or two from him.

Thanks for sharing your story. I was worried about having trouble getting hard the first time I jacked with a guy, too. Fortunately I didn't have any trouble. We both dropped our pants, and I gave my cock a few tugs, and it boned right up. I'd recommend trying it again with either him or another guy. I bet you'll get comfortable and get a good hard-on!

I'd be careful sucking guys that you just met, though. That's a good way to get an STD. I'd get to know them fairly well before that. But at least you got some good practice!

I met up with one guy from craigslist so far, and it worked out fine. We even met up a few hours after first contact, but I wasn't too worried since we clearly discussed what was and wasn't going to happen by email first. I pretty much ignore the posts or replies that are one sentence or less.

Hopefully your next time the guy is more easy going and patient, and lets you do what you need to do to bone up.

Just like anything involving meeting new people, you have to be careful. Even picking up a chick at a bar nowadays requires some caution. Wife and I have met several single guys off of CL to fuck her, and it is easy to tell the fakes and flakes just from emails. We always require a face to face meet at a restaurant or bar, so we can get to know the person and judge their character. You can never be 100% sure, but meeting a person in a casual setting reveals a lot about their character. Plus, it breaks the ice, rather than just meeting at a house and getting naked immediately

Good luck and have fun.