What are your reasons for wanting a str8 jo bud?


To watch his jo technique

To see what kind of porn he likes

To share porn links

To talk dirty about porn girls or wives or gf

To share lewd thoughts

To encourage him to fuck your wife while you watch or join in

To hear him moan and groan while wanking

To see his cum splash out

To feel his hot cum land on you

To have him watch your jo pleasure and messy cumshot

To indulge in mutual jacking

To indulge in C2C jacking

To suck or be sucked

What did I miss?

To show him your cock and let him see how aroused you are

To enjoy basic horny male sexuality together

To feel each others cock twitch while you stroke each other
To caress each others balls while you are stroking each other

Hit the nail right on the head. It's an amazing experience developing your technique and tastes on your own. But to find someone who shares the same "hobby" (or even better, interests) as you opens up all kinds of doors.

Then it gets to those benefits listed above which add to the primal, carnal lust-filled pastime enjoyed by an unfathomable number of men.

It's knowing that someone else is enjoying the same stuff - at the same time - and that drives it forward. If you cam or mic, then you can see/hear his arousal and vice-versa. That indicates that you're both enjoying what's being shared and for some odd reason, makes you harder and want to do more - drive the session further.

It even creates a type of bond with that person if you both click. That's what happens with "regulars", someone you get along with very well - someone you're on the same wavelength with (you both know exactly who or what you want to stroke to or pull up next) and that adds to the fun and excitement of it all.

The great thing about two oversexed straight guys (okay, bi guys if you insist, but they would never kiss or feel romantic toward one another) getting off together is that, unlike females, it can be just about the sex: no emotional entanglements before, during and after the sex. It is just so much simpler with another guy--and he always cums and proves it!

Well, a number of reasons for me. Firstly, I don't find the male body attractive in any way, but I do love to share the effect that beautiful females have on us. For example, if I were to walk down the street and a short-skirted, attractive female was walking in front of me, and another guy was walking across the road, I wouldn't be aroused by the guy's body, but I would be aroused by the female, and would have the urge to say to the guy "that bitch's legs have given me a massive hard-on", and I'd be interested to hear if she had the same effect on him. It would also be a turn on to see his cock get hard for the same female that my cock was hard for. And if we were using the same attractive female at the same time, then I would find it a turn on to now and again see how hard he was for said attractive female while we touched her body, but his cock alone would in no way turn me on. It's the "sharing" of the lust for female beauty. It's almost the same as watching the same movie, and agreeding on how fantastic it was.

The best way I can describe it is a "camoradorie" with other straight guys. The main reason for this, for me, is the detachment I feel in regards to women. I've never been comfortable being around attractive females, but they give me one hell of a boner. It doesn't help that they probably find me physically repulsive . Because of that I have no real empathy with them, and just see them as objects of lust....albeit with no hope of touching said beauty . I almost resent them for it, as they make me feel inadequate, which is why I like to call them degrading names when chatting about them. Oh how I would love to indulge in their soft curvy beauty...but edging/wanking will have to make do .

Essay over.

Don't know why you would necessarily eliminate bi and gay fellow bators. Except for a couple of items on the list, they may have some tips and tricks to pleasuring yourself that you don't know about. As long as the rules are clear, what do you have to fear?

Because there's no "Secret tips" to jerking off.
You know what feels good on your own body and nobody else knows that about you because they can't feel it.
You do it the way that feels best for you, there's no hidden tricks and tips to jerking off ffs

Talk about porn, jerk off to porn together, talk dirty about girls, that's it for me. I'm strictly into women so I'd want him to be straight so he'd more likely into the same porn and not interested in touching each other.

Just recently lined up my first in person jo buddy session (he didn't show up but that's another story) so I've thought about this question a lot recently.

First, while I have never been interested in a relationship with another man or really checked men out like I do women, I have always been interested in cock, just masturbating with another man and more recently mutual masturbation with another man. I do chat about more but not really interested in more in person. Recent chat bud referred to that as being "cock drunk" which I thought was pretty accurate.

Second, partly due to medical issues and partly just because men and women seem to have different levels of sexual need as we age- based on many, many chats with other middle aged married men- I'm not getting much sex at home. She'll give me a hand job pretty much anytime I ask for one, but so much of the fun for me is the other person being aroused and making them orgasm. Wife gives outstanding hand jobs but if it's just for my satisfaction and she's not enjoying it- I cum obviously but it doesn't have the desperate nature it does with another horny person. It's very arousing for me to chat with another horny man and I've wanted so badly to mess around with one.

Finally, not sure my wife would see it this way but it seems less like cheating than if I got together with another woman. Especially with another discreet married man (and especially if he was also into underwear), who has the same need to keep things on the DL, there wouldn't be the interest there for a long term relationship, just getting off.

I'm unfortunately still looking for my first experience...

omg, this is like the hottest conversation

It is an amazing experience to share with another horny guy. Can be more fulfilling and satisfying than fucking a gf.

Totally agree. It's a different kind of satisfaction.

I have a str8 friend who has an incredible collection of pics and vids of some of his sex partners from over the years (he was into 3sums up north). I have viewed them with him a couple times but we didn't jack together. Finally, about a month ago he invited me over for a viewing session. This time he showed me several videos of him playing naked with another guy's wife (the hubby filmed the whole thing).
It was very exciting to see his hard cock on the video and to see the wife suck him and then fuck. We were both hard and I told him I had to get some relief, and he agreed, so we both took our pants off. (He has a very nice cock, about 7.5" cut and he keeps his pubes trimmed.) We stroked side-by-side for a while then I reached over and moved his hand away and stroked him.. He just sat back and let me jack his cock. After a while he got some precum oozing out and I used it to lube as I stroked him. As more precum oozed out, I bent down and licked it off! I had never done that with a guy before, but loved it! So I continued to slowly stroke him and also continued to lick his precum as it appeared on his cockhead!
He was really enjoying what I was doing, and then asked if I had ever sucked another man before, and I told him I had tried a few times a long time ago when I was about 11 yrs old, but I wanted to try it again If he wanted me to. So then I started sucking him - I was surprised that I wasn't turned off, and really liked it! I sucked him for about 15 minutes and he eventually shot his cum in my mouth!!!!! I was so surprised that I automatically swallowed it! I liked it so much that I continued to suck it as it oozed out of his cock until he was soft. I was extremely hard after all that and had him watch me jack off, and I ate my load of cum.
. It was an unbelievable experience, especially since all I wanted was to have a good mutual JO session!
We are going to meet again soon.

Still looking for a str8 wank buddy in manchester