I'm in a Str8 relationship and recently hooked up on the dl with someone on cl. We chatted for a while and eventually met. When we met...we realized we knew each other quite well. Not going to lie, it was very hot to be with a childhood friend. We met up a couple times and jacked together and some oral. Then I didn't hear back from him. Driving myself crazy now wondering why all of a sudden he bailed. Any thoughts on this?

Maybe he got cold feet.

I'd just ask him if he's still interested. I know there are times when I'm not in the mood for cock. Sometimes it's all I want. Just depends on what's making my dick hard that day.

Yea...I have sent him a text and email...no response. I think I'll leave it at that and wait for his response. He knows where to find me. Too bad....was a pretty hot encounter and someone I could trust.

Well upstate I just give him some time. Maybe he just taking some time to think about what he wants to do next. I think all of us have been in a fix where we knew what felt go and what we wanted next. Maybe he thinking the very same as yourself and wondering how to approach the issue.
Good luck and keep everyone posted.

So its been a while on this but cant stop thinking about this encounter. He texted me out of the blue to see what was going on. I texted him back and never heard back again...lol Im really horned for him and not sure what my next step is...if any.

Maybe he's scared? I know a lot of guys, myself included, go back and forth about wanting cock or not. I mean, I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual, but it took time to accept that. Sometimes people are afraid of being something that they perceive as bad or something they don't want to be. It's why people erase their accounts here and other places. It's why guys you're camming with log off as soon as they cum. There's a lot of psychology involved, but sometimes horniness will make a guy do things that his rational mind is not willing to accept. I dunno. Or could be something else?

I think at this point just wait to hear from him again...He most likely goes through phases of being turned on and wanting cock to points where he isnt really interested in it..Also if he has a girlfriend he may have felt guilty after doing it behind her back, just the way I feel a lot of the time so I end up having to be really in the mood for cock to try to meet with someone. Hopefully you get to meet with him again though, I would love to find a dude I could trust and be able to be jo and suck buddies

There is some excellent advice on here and I agree 100% with the idea that this guy might just be seriously thinking about if he wants to continue with it. I myself am like many who have commented. I sway back and forth between an overwhelming desire for cock and then have a battle with thought about guilt, "is it worth the risk of discovery" etc, My advice would be to give this guy the breathing space to sort it out for himself, for some it's an easy decision and for others it's not. But ultimately only he knows what he wants to do and if he considers that the benefits outweigh his obvious doubts.

I would give him a little space and time. Maybe he was as surprised as you to discover who he was hooking up with. He may be trying to figure out for himself how he really felt about what transpired. Societies labels really bother some people. If you guys are good friends I would think you'll hear from him when he has some time to think.
It's great when friends can reach such a personal level as to enjoy each other this way so I hope for both of you that you can continue your friendship.