As per the topic title, I haven't had a long, decent edging session for around a year, and even that was a one-off.
I never used to have this problem.
Maybe the majority of people are only looking for a quick fix now to get off. It's strange how this has happened, I remember the last time I had a decent, active contact list(about 3/4 years ago), there was always someone online who was up for a chat.
I even used to manage to find someone with the same tastes as me in celebs, but I've almost given up with the lack of decent chats I've had.
I myself am a leg lover, and I think that hinders me now more than ever, as we are in the minority I think .
Also, being the age I am, I enjoyed chatting about how attractive celebs(and women in general) are out of our reach, make us feel frustrated(and a tad bit angry) and how it would feel to actually get our hands on one.
My love of celeb pics is also something that is a problem nowadays as well, as I suppose most prefer pornography.
Just my two cents .
(Oh and my Yahoo is [email protected] if any of that strikes a chord )
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I def still have a regular edging session that lasts about 2-3 hours. I do think that most people are only looking for a quick fix to get off but it is severely underestimated the orgasm is after about 3 hours. If I get a quick fix I feel like I need to go again after about 7 hours. However after edging for 3 hours and having a HUGE orgasm I'm good for about 2 days.
I also prefer the celeb pics as opposed to porn sometimes. I have 3 "go to girls" in my celeb wank bank that I edge over quite often.
I also prefer the celeb pics as opposed to porn sometimes. I have 3 "go to girls" in my celeb wank bank that I edge over quite often.
Managed a 4 hour session this morning - when I finally did cum (to pic below), the first shot hit me on the chin, then neck, chest and all over my stomach - haven't cum that hard in a while!
Very hot curvy lady! Edging is awesome,just finding someone who likes the same kind of pictures/GIFS etc..and the session can go on for hours.
It is all about meeting the right person, if I can meet someone who likes what I like we can have fun all day long.
Unfortunately it's rare, but that's why its all the better when you find it!
Unfortunately it's rare, but that's why its all the better when you find it!
I edge for an hour or two a day... sometimes longer on days off. I'm a big cummer with a great picture collection.
Yahoo - shaved7inchcock
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definitely not, i only ever edge these days, unless i have at least 2-3 hours i dont even bother jerking. I would consider a three hour wank a 'quick' one these days and i regularly edge for 5+ hours
I think it's a generational thing. People want instant gratification, instant results. The best things in life take time and effort, but the reward is so much greater. That analogy works for jacking, and for life.
I am an edger and have to admit most of my long term chat buds seem to have disappeared. It is hard to meet like minded buds (i prefer guys in the same geographic area as well).
Bobby54 said:
. . . The best things in life take time and effort, but the reward is so much greater.
. . . The best things in life take time and effort, but the reward is so much greater.
Exactly. Which is why I edge for 4-5 hours most days.
Not for me, I plan on at least a four hour run here in the next few minutes.
Working it hard
In-depth edging sessions are definitely NOT a think of the past for me. There is nothing more rewarding than enjoying that pleasurable sensation of stroking your dick for hours and riding the edge. Quickies just don't do it for me. If I am short for time (less than an hour), I would edge for as long as I could without blowing my load. Then I will go about and do what I need to do, like go to work, and then come back later and finish the full edging session for at least 2 hours. As soon as I get back to my session, it is the most amazing feeling because my dick has been awaiting to be stroked for so long. Sometimes I'm already precumming before my pants come off, LOL.
I can edge by myself since I have a library of material to stroke to, but it is much fun when you have an on-line buddy who shares the same interest in material. For me it is female feet and hardcore barefoot sex scenes. I get lost for hours and it's fun when you're sharing pics and videos with a buddy. I understand its hard to find people who likes the same genre. I have two buddies that love the same material as I do, but it's hard to get on-line at the same time.
I can edge by myself since I have a library of material to stroke to, but it is much fun when you have an on-line buddy who shares the same interest in material. For me it is female feet and hardcore barefoot sex scenes. I get lost for hours and it's fun when you're sharing pics and videos with a buddy. I understand its hard to find people who likes the same genre. I have two buddies that love the same material as I do, but it's hard to get on-line at the same time.
bstrokhur said:
Quickies just don't do it for me. If I am short for time (less than an hour), I would edge for as long as I could without blowing my load. Then I will go about and do what I need to do, like go to work, and then come back later and finish the full edging session for at least 2 hours.
Quickies just don't do it for me. If I am short for time (less than an hour), I would edge for as long as I could without blowing my load. Then I will go about and do what I need to do, like go to work, and then come back later and finish the full edging session for at least 2 hours.
Same here. I will pause a session and come back later to get my fill of pleasure. Must edge, always!
Thanks for the replies posted so far.
It seems to be just about being able to meet someone online who shares the same tastes.
Leg Lovers like myself are quite rare it seems .
It seems to be just about being able to meet someone online who shares the same tastes.
Leg Lovers like myself are quite rare it seems .
Posted on 2014-12-06 09:00 PM. Last edited by FLscribe on 2014-12-06 09:01 PM. (1 edits total)
There's a little bit of truth in the immediate-gratification thing. But that's society -- everything has to happen right now, and on-demand is the byword. And there are so many outside demands on our time. All of that feeds the urge in other parts of life.
I'm not an all-day kind of guy, either. And there have been plenty of times where I needed less than a minute to blast out a big load. But give me an hour, and it's a beautiful thing.
That said, I recently was taking some meds that made it impossible to get a hard erection. But I was so fucking horny and I needed to get my rocks off, so I decided to make a day of it. Seven hours of soft stroking later -- thank god I had the day off -- with a couple of breaks along the way, I blew a HUGE load despite a weak erection. It was entirely because I edged for so long. And it felt so damn good.
By the way, leg lovers aren't as rare as you think. I love 'em ... especially when there are pretty, pedicured feet on the end of 'em. (I have a major foot fetish.)
I'm not an all-day kind of guy, either. And there have been plenty of times where I needed less than a minute to blast out a big load. But give me an hour, and it's a beautiful thing.
That said, I recently was taking some meds that made it impossible to get a hard erection. But I was so fucking horny and I needed to get my rocks off, so I decided to make a day of it. Seven hours of soft stroking later -- thank god I had the day off -- with a couple of breaks along the way, I blew a HUGE load despite a weak erection. It was entirely because I edged for so long. And it felt so damn good.
By the way, leg lovers aren't as rare as you think. I love 'em ... especially when there are pretty, pedicured feet on the end of 'em. (I have a major foot fetish.)
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