Personally I think we (society) just puts too much emphasis on labels. That leads to us being fearful of being totally honest (or at least some of us) Face it, we're all sexual beings, created to enjoy the equipment we have. Some of us are open about enjoying sex and we're open to experiencing it with those of both genders. Porn is just porn - something to watch, enjoy and get off to. If cocks in porn turn you on, cool, enjoy it. If gay porn turns you on, cool, jack off too it. Certainly doesn't mean you are gay, it just means you get visually (and physically) stimulated by watching guys with cocks get off. Sex is just fun, right?
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gldphallus said:
I considered myself straight most of my life really, but once I found I like looking at men fuck, what it did for me is what women can no longer do, though I still like girls. Is it the connection? why is it that a naked man fucking or jerking does wonders vs women? is it just me???
I considered myself straight most of my life really, but once I found I like looking at men fuck, what it did for me is what women can no longer do, though I still like girls. Is it the connection? why is it that a naked man fucking or jerking does wonders vs women? is it just me???
If you think of hetero porn then there is a huge emphasis on the guy shooting his load at the end, and often you'll find it noted in the comments if a clip on xhamster etc lacks a cum shot at the end of it. Its often much more about the cock than people consciously realise.
As for gay porn, I actually find it even more formulaic and 'painting by numbers' than straight stuff. I also find alot of bi porn unbalanced with too much emphasis on the guys rather than it being properly shared around.
beanjam1993 said:
Very few people are "straight" or "gay", most are bisexual if they would just admit it they would be a lot happier and enjoy life more : P
Very few people are "straight" or "gay", most are bisexual if they would just admit it they would be a lot happier and enjoy life more : P
I guess that depends on how you define bisexual. There is the Kinsey Scale which says that there is a whole spectrum of relative attraction and my suspicion is that the majority of people are at points 1 or 2 on that scale with 1 probably being more common. If you define those points as bisexual, i.e. by bisexual you mean everything except 100% straight (0) or 100% gay (6) then you're right but I think some people will misunderstand you because they think of bisexual as just point 3 on the scale.
The Kinsey scale, and the idea it enshrines that relative atttraction to each of the sexes is a variable spectrum and not an either/or thing, has been around for ages so why do people still talk predominantly about gay and straight? Because there are only two sexes and if you have a relationship with someone that person can either be the opposite sex as you or the same sex. This is the key question: "When looking for a partner do I expect to find a woman or a man to be the one?"
When it comes to masturbation and watching porn you can do whatever you wish. You can watch women together one day, a man and a woman the next, and two guys going at it the third day if you like. You should feel no obligation to restrict the things that arouse you during masturbation to align with your choice of partner.
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