thank you. will empty my inbox now

I realize that this is in "For Him" but the posts I see here make me sad.

Sex for me is all about my partner's reactions, so comparing the two based on the physical experience for me is somewhat an apples/oranges comparison. I've had fulfilling sexual sessions where all I did was pleasure my partner- for me giving my partner an orgasm (or preferably multiple) is every bit as fulfilling as cumming myself.

When I've been in close sexual relationships, I haven't felt the need to masturbate, though handjobs were often part of the range of our sexual activities.

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I disagree since I'm 59 and have never met a woman who really wanted to give a h/j.
They all saw it as something that gets you off but not really for them. Women in UK must be different from those in my part of the world. In fact several of the girls got upset about me jacking off. They said " what I'm not enough for you and you have to do this " ? See what I mean dude ?

My late wife liked to jack me off as she said she felt control and power as she brought me to the edge then backed down only to start again. Of course I loved it to as she teased the hell out of me with her hands.

Jacking is preferable to me because I can do it anytime, anywhere without hesitation. Sex with the wife becomes more of a "thing" and not as spontaneous. I also know what makes my dick tremble.

I agree! Sex is about pleasing my partner. I am focused on giving pleasure to her and receive satisfaction from her orgasm.

Masturbation is about me, myself, and I. Sometimes I edge and enjoy the feeling for hours, sometimes I bust a quick nut just because I'm horny and need relief.

But purely based on the act of sliding my cock in a pussy or my lubed hand...hand wins. I'm talking physical only, not the emotional part.

I kept a record of my orgasms in 2014 and 92% of my cums were from wanking and only 8% were from fucking. I think that says it all about which is best.

Sex is great.

But, you can't beat the real thing!

Masturbation for most boys is their first true love and it continues throughout life

I definitely prefer sex. I love beating off, but there's nothing at all like pleasing another person.

I def masturbate alot more these days instead of sex. I dont compare the two since they are two very different feelings and scenarios. After several years of marriage and kids, I have started to enjoy the masturbation aspect of my life these days and have no reason to stop.

I love pussy but 25 years same pussy 3 kids that pussy isn't like it was at first. But my hand always tight. Wife understands and even lends a hand time to time. The best thing about my hand never has headache and don't mind taking care of my needs anytime anywhere. Wife use to be that way but things change. Miss those days of going out for a drive pulling over some place secluded and fucking in the open air even got caught a few times. Once mother in law peeked thru curtains and stared as I was fucking wife. She had a big grin on her face too. After that she managed to flash her nude body a few times for me.