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Hello everyone! I'm curious to know if any other ladies or men here are waiting until marriage for sex. I've elected to abstain from sex until marriage, and I do masturbate regularly as a sexual outlet. The way I see it, if a man isn't willing to wait until marriage, he doesn't want me for more than just my body. Does anyone else have experience with waiting until marriage?
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If she is someone I can fall in love with, I would be happy to wait, reckon she'd be worth it
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I look up to you girl. masturbating is a lot safer too
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Do you consider sucking on someone sex?
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plush Omnipitant Jackinchatter

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This is 2015 and most people today have had sex prior to marriage but to each there own
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plush said:
This is 2015 and most people today have had sex prior to marriage but to each there own


Yeah, thought we'd moved past this in all parts of the world where they have Internet these days.
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Waiting for marriage is a noble pursuit and if done for religious reasons, I understand. But sex is important to a man. Not giving it to him until marriage is not a good plan. It's like buying a car without a test drive. How do you know you will be sexually compatible? Will you have the same kinks? How will you keep it exciting when the "new" wears off?

Sex is not a big deal...it's just sex. It's something you should enjoy. You should experiment and see what you like and don't like. And by all means, sow your wild oats before marriage. That way when you pick that one person to live the rest of your life with you have no questions about what it's like to fuck someone else.

I know two women who were virgins when they married and both of them ended up cheating. One has had several lovers over the years (one of them me) and continues to fuck other men for excitement. She loves sex and claims her husband is boring in bed and doesn't make her cum. She didn't think anything about it at first because she had no experience and didn't know what to expect. She thought something was wrong with her. Turns out, she cums just fine during sex, just takes her longer than the 2 minutes her husband fucks her.
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I never understood the point of waiting until marriage for sex. Sex is an important part of most relationships to both partners, so why wouldn't you want to know if you were sexually compatible?

The argument about "the woman is worth waiting for" seems very sexist to me and makes it sound like the woman doesn't really care about sex and just does it to pleas her husband.
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SloStroker Omnipitant Jackinchatter

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Ben said:
I never understood the point of waiting until marriage for sex. Sex is an important part of most relationships to both partners, so why wouldn't you want to know if you were sexually compatible?

The argument about "the woman is worth waiting for" seems very sexist to me and makes it sound like the woman doesn't really care about sex and just does it to pleas her husband.


Yep! And most women who "wait" have associated sex with something "sinful" or morally "wrong" for so many years that they can't change that view once they get married.
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I'd want to try it before I buy it. It's just sex.
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731 posts since 2010-10-15
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You don't buy a car without test driving it first. Marriage is a much bigger commitment, so my advise is, DON'T WAIT.
That's just one mans opinion, your mileage may vary.
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Sorry Keeina, I think you're really offside on this one. Times have changed, and this probably won't end well for you unless you are part of a close-knit religious group.

No man in his right mind is going to wait given how easily sex is available from other women.

Also, it benefits both of you to ensure that you are sexually compatible with a potential partner before marriage. Sexual incompatibility besides money-issues, is the biggest problems people have in marriage.

If you're not ultra religious, and more importantly, have a network of ultra religous men who are potential suitors, you're going to be left behind in the game. As you get older and older, your virginity will become a bigger monkey on your back. Not saying you should go sleep with the first man you find, but you should really reconsider.

Take it from a fellow Canuck!
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I would have to agree with Slo-Stoker. My first wife would not allow us to have sex prior to marriage. It was ok for me to finger her and all but she would not even touch me. On wedding night she lasted 5 mins and said I was too big. Over our 5yr marriage whenever we had sex she never would touch my cock but it was ok for me to have oral with her and once she reached orgasm then it was like push me away. I remember telling her that she made me feel like a stranger in our own bed and that my cock was like a snake or something. Divorce happened primarily cause of our sex life. I made sure that prior to getting married again that I would make sure my future wife loved sex and had no hang ups about sex. U r 23 yrs old and maybe might have some hang ups about sex since u still r a virgin. I think also u might think that once u give in your man might all of a sudden decide to not want to marry u. Don't know since u did not provide more details about whether u even have foreplay with him or not.
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lookingtolick said:
Do you consider sucking on someone sex?


Ask Bill Clinton.
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