I'm married with a family I have a busy life I feel like I'm too busy even to have a lady mistress it would be awesome, but at this point I've been so curious and horny like i just want to see other dicks or play with other dicks I don't know

Family first dude, the Internet has dick porn to be curious with.

Right there with ya, shanin69. Marrige/family isn't super conducive to exploring those types of interests. Trying to figure the same thing out myself.

As a married bi guy, closeted .... there are plenty of us around who have and do balance both worlds. While finding the right guy is a challenge, and the place often a bigger challenge, it can be done. If either of you want to chat, drop me a message and I'll share my experiences.

Being married and bi does slow your extra-curricular activities down. I always knew I swung both ways like a two hinged gate, but it goes in spurts, sometimes females, sometimes males. I've had a couple of long time boyfriends on the side and it is terrific, but that is a rare thing. I think that about a quarter of all guys will do it if given a chance, its just hard to set up a relationship. Good luck.

Married bi guy here. I have to find discreet hookups from time to time. Don't deny yourself. Sex is great with a man or woman. I love sucking a cock as much as licking a pussy. It's all good!!

Bi married here. Didn't act on my bi side till I in my 50's. I am in my 60's now and I love sucking cock. Don't wait too long, you will regret it.

Well guys don't trap yourselfs in those kinds of feelings. It does eat away at the face these feelings are deep inside you, having a wife, kids, and the responenceiables that family life has can sure be taxing on your life.
That it from a single older bi dude here we all can be trapped with these very same desires and be curious as hell. Just a little different when your getting older. So like others say don't let time pass by on these desires. We age to fast the way it is. Good luck to you all out there!

Married and bi here too! Not acted on the bi urges since I've been married although think about it almost everyday. Try not to let it eat me up and I guess the image of what I could have is always good wank material!

I didn't explore my bi side until I was separated. With increased attention on masturbation as a sexual release, I began to entertain the idea of following through on my urges. And I've enjoyed the shit out of it!

Skype anyone to explore bi curiosity ? Ryedog47