Married for years and we have a good sex life, but now in my late 40's I have quite deep urges to suck a cock when making love to my wife.

I always love cum kissing after I came, maybe that was the start of it, as in love making, mostly when she in doggie position, I then take her dildo in my mouth that turns me on to cum. In my mind however, I would love it to suck a cock rather a dildo.

I cant quite get my head around it as I am not attracted to guys, but cock yes.

Irishman here looking for other Irish guys with similar bi or gay urges.

A very common condition, as others here will no doubt join me in testifying.

Indeed and a hot profile picture also

I don't think this is unusual, it's a time when you're at your most sexually engaged after all.

I knew one married guy in his 30's who never had any interest in cock usually but had a fantasy of sucking off two guys while he fucked his wife.

Another straight guy I knew wanted to try DP with his girlfriend, but admitted to me that he really just wanted to try some cock on cock frott with another guy - he later became a wank mate and we had some frott fun a couple of times.

I agree what you posted.

I do watch frot porn videos also, and I do find it extremely erotic, with the usual put off moment when the guys kiss. So step by step I am just learning my sexual urges that yes I have physical attractions to the male cock and ass and tight muscles, but not to masculinity. A learning process.

Pretty much the same here. Don't find guys sexually appealing, but I sure would love to suck and ride a hard cock.

It's a very common thing really. I've never found guys attractive at all but the penis is very appealing when erect.

What about smooth athletic guys masturbating ?

I get erect as much looking at fit women, but the difference for me, is I do not find male faces attractive, but the body yes.

It is a interesting point above about sitting on a cock and masturbating... thats a real turn on.

I often fantasize about sucking a cock and feeling warm cum spurting into my mouth while fucking or jerking off.
I enjoy seeing guys stroking and shooting; cum shooting out of a beautiful cock; hard, erect cocks in all their glory!
Wish I had the opportunity to suck a nice cock!

I love cock! Wish it was possible to have a friend who loved his cock as much as I love mine. Just for the pleasure of sex!

Very rarely, which makes it one of the few times I'm not thinking about cock.

When I was younger I used to fool around with gay and bi guys for the sheer thrill of something taboo. I'm in my early 40s now and although I haven't don't anything like that in a long time it's not something I'd rule out either. Like you I'm not emotionally attracted to men really, but I do get turned on by the purely physical aspect of it. Yesterday I wanked to a video of a guy with a massive cock getting a handjob, sometimes I like to watch videos of muscular men frotting and, kissing and sucking. Other times I don't. Your desires change, mine do. If you can't be open about them so your best to be honest with yourself and don't be scared of them.

My wife has played with another woman and I've played with other men so we both have bi tendencies. Both of us have expressed our bi desires during sex. I've confessed to her many times about wanting to see another man fuck her then suck his dick and swallow his load.

Nope, only because I've never had straight sex. I've never fucked pussy, and never plan to.

I think this is totally normal, even for men who would never admit it out loud. We love our cocks, and we know how good it feels to be sucked. So yes, we have the urge to suck cock while we fuck, totally normal.

I don't think however that this is a GAY thing, it's a SEXUAL thing. Being gay is much deeper than just wanting to suck cock. I have gay friends and they truly and sincerely are in love with their partners. Sex is just a part of that love. For us BI or Bi-curious married guys, we just want to get down and dirty with a hard cock in our mouths while we fuck pussy. Nothing wrong with either of the above. I'm just not a big fan of tags, like gay, bi or what ever. I like to think of myself as SEXUAL.

Having said all that, If I could suck cock and swallow cum every time I fuck my wife, would I do it? Hell yes.

I would love a 3some and feel another cock against mine as she sucks them