So when I jerk off I usually go for like 5 minutes and cum. I see a lot of people talking about edging and how amazing it is but I can't imagine holding off my load when I'm so close to jerking off. Can anyone teach me how to truly hold off on it when I'm so close to cumming? Add me on YIM Curiousguy4747

Im in the same boat and would like to know too

I do this regularly...every time you get close to cumming, you need to let go of your cock and let the feeling subside. Then you get going again and work it up...then stop short once again.

Once you get the hang of it the build up is amazing and it feels incredible. I tend to enjoy the process so much I have a difficult time deciding when to cum, because I don't want it to end!

I need help with it too

Can u ooze a little but still have an erection and still be horny?

I would love to try to taste it

I agree with Rippedrunner82. I like to edge for at least an hour or more because the feeling gets more intense with every stroke and I want that feeling in my cock to last forever. Unfortunately, the momentary high from orgasm immediately ends the pleasure and many times I regret cumming at all.

Usually there's just a lot of precum throughout...but I've leaked actual cum on occasion, and as long as you don't have an orgasm you keep on going.

Just play with your cock but don't cum

i did this without an orgasm, i wasn't sure if i was done so i carried on edging a while longer and finally got an orgasm, it was great.

You can be given various tips on how to edge, but it's not something that can be really taught, in the sense that..."If you do "A" and avoid "B" for as long as possible, the result will be a fantastic Edge. Only each person knows exactly when he is going to blow a load and the art of edging is to get as close to that point, and keep yourself right on that fine edge between blowing and not blowing. It really is simply a matter of practice and self discipline.

As for jeepster's comments......




You certainly can ooze cum and still be hard & horny. As a matter of fact, once you have mastered it, you can have what is sometimes called a "Ruined orgasm" where you can actually blow a normal load and still stay hard and cum again within a short time. But this really does call for the finest of timing, because at the very second of cumming, you stop all stimulation of your cock dead in it's tracks. If you go on even for a second or two longer, it simply doesn't work (In most cases anyway) stop a second or two early and you won't cum. Like I said, fine timing, but oh so worth the effort! Anyway, keep at it guys, it's certainly a unique feeling to stay right on that edge until you simply can't bear it a second longer....and then get ready for one of the best blows you have ever had!

Once you have mastered the edging process ... you can enter an elevated level of pleasure. As the man keeps edging and thus keeps experiencing intense pleasure, he enters a state of trance where his mind intimately merges with his cock to become one: the gooning state.

Yes jeeps tee, I have been horny enough to leak out my pre-cum either with a hard on or even soft. If you get yourself excited enough reading stories or watching porn this excitement can stimulate your prostrate and your pre-cum leaks out really great. Just have to play with it and try various ways, get yourself close and then back out and then rest some. With me it took a few good years to get a good plan down to working out for me.
Good luck fellow jacker!!
Spunk_drunk, you have them edging detail right down to a tee. I was thinking all that but couldn't get the words out thst great. Made my pre-cum start to leak out just reading yours. Just love these sites that share.

Everyone has good advice. One other thing I have found helpful is to change the way you are stimulating yourself. When I get close I change from stroking to just using my index finger and thumb right under the head. I also use a vibrator that will get me very close but not make me cum. I can use that thing for hours.

It's not uncommon for me to gently squirt a bit of cum when I am very aroused from stroking and decide to stop. It doesn't diminish the feeling for me and keeps me hard to start again when I'm ready. I usually lick the cum off my hand or fingers to help enjoy myself. I suggest you just try some edging sessions and see what works for you and you will soon figure out what gives you the most enjoyment. That's all I did to learn about edging.

I like to go for 1 hour, and I lube my cock up.each session is different some better than others. The key is learning about your own cocks pleasure and how to vary technique to make it last. I'd start be learning where the point of no return is then practice getting there and stopping, should be fun learning

i can also make it for about an hour before i start to lose control.. on a few rare occasions i've been able to make it a little bit longer, but never hit the 2-3 hour mark and i don't think i've made it to the "gooning" stage.. i would love to but there's that 1 hour timeframe where i often just lose control :[

want to goon so bad. i try almost every night.. some sessions are better than others.