hey fellow jackers. so i was wondering, if any one had any tips for me. i love anal giving and receiving. but as much as i love it i can never seem to keep an erection during an anal session. i have to stop penetrating and start stroking for an erection.
dose any one have this problem? can any one keep it hard during anal? any tips would help thanks!

I'm straight but enjoy anal play once in awhile. I masturbated anally a few weeks ago. I used my wife's 8 inch vibrator. Since it had been three, four years since I last played anally, I was surprised how I was able to take in almost all 8 inches. Anyways, I was wondering why I wasn't getting hard, or able to keep an erection. I've seen videos where guys stayed rock hard the whole time. I couldn't understand why I wasn't. I had to pull out the vibe and stroke to get hard. But, in the end, I blew a MASSIVE load!

yea me too! it makes me cum soo hard.
when i watch tranny porn they stay hard all the time also.
i wonder whats the secret.

I don't know, but I wish I knew...

i got an anal pole I ride deep, sum times I'm solid others semi but either way I cum big, even better on the fone with a verbal guy

What is an anal pole? Is it long and thin?

If I'm stroking while I pound my ass with a dildo it stays hard and sometimes I cum but if not my cock goes limp just with a dildo in me. I can't cum from anal play any more either. The usual routine is start with a dildo in my ass then switch to a porn and cock stroke to get the cum.

Viagra?

I think there are a lot of factors -- age, anatomy, how long since your last orgasm. I go both ways. Sometimes I get and maintain an erection when using a toy but I generally have to stimulate my cock as well. I can come when flaccid, semi-flaccid and erect while playing with a dildo or plugged. All are different and very pleasurable.

I've had anal play that resulted in many orgasms, but not always ejaculation, though probably had the biggest spurt of my life being fuck ed with a strap on, though other times it was not possible to keep fully erect. So I doubt there's anything to worry about. Perhaps it gives us a similar response to women, as they don't always have to come!

I play anally as often as possible, usually 3-4 times a week. Sometimes stay hard, other times not. Today, I drove to a secluded place in the woods near a lake. I stuck my favorite 9" suction cup dildo to the top of my back bumper and stripped down. I lubed it up good and slid my ass down onto it. I was limp when I started but got hard fast with a little bit of stroking. It felt so good inside me that I stopped stroking and concentrated on just the feeling in my ass. My dick went soft but it did drip a lot of precum as I worked my hips for about a half hour. Later I masturbated on the dock. I laid on my back with the dildo in my ass again and this time I stayed hard all the way until I came really hard. One night last week I came from it and never got fully hard. The one thing I haven't done yet is come without stroking my dick but I'm still trying!

i never tried viagra b4 but i assume it would keep me erect
has any one tried with Viagra?

If I'm wanking and using an anal vibrator, I'm as hard as a rock, but if I'm being fucked by another guy I lose my erection. I don't think it's got anything to do with age as this has always happened since I was first fucked over forty years ago.

same here i just wish i knew how porn stars do it. it would be soo fun to fuck something while being fucked

I used to have a ladle made by pyrex with a long smooth handle that got thicker for a handle & tapered right at the end. It was the perfect ass toy because the spoon end weighted it down and put the handle pressure on my p-spot. I would try & relax but my body would clench up, lifting it, but it would fall back, causing me to clench again, over & over. I would lose my hardon, but right before cumming it would harden up again. I'd leak precum like never before. Just one slight touch on my cock and I would blow my load. Tried 2 sessions in one day when the wife was away, and I was *done*. Amazing.