I am certainly not new to wanking, its my favorite hobby, but I want to find a wank buddy in my area to wank together. Any suggestions?

Craigslist has worked for me a few times.

bit of a hit and miss really.I have had good luck with this site and xhamster but in truth its a dead avenue to pursue as many straight guys just don't want to wank with another guy while watching porn because they do not want to be tarred with the "Gay" label

I have had the best luck right here. Click on Profiles then enter your search criteria. For location, I find that you have to be a bit vague because people don't exactly put in their zip code (wish they did!) so I use the state abbreviation. So if you enter IL for example, you will get all the people in Illinois but also MILwaukee, BILlings, etc. Also, the more info you put in your profile, the more likely someone nearby will find you.