If this has ever been discussed in the "wife" threads, I apologize. But the issue of approval or disapproval aside, please reply about whether your wife or S.O. knows you masturbate and/or if you know about what she knows. For tabulation of statistics, please reply by number 1 through 5, and then amplify or qualify your reply as you wish.

1) She knows and I know she knows. She's mentioned it one or more times, or we've talked about it in detail.

2) I think she knows, but she's never mentioned it.

3) I have no idea whether she knows or not. We've never discussed the subject and I have no idea.

4) I don't think she knows. We've never talked about it.

5) I'm sure she doesn't know. We have an agreement that I won't do it, and she's never caught me or seen my porn.

4. Although I'm sure she suspects.

1. She knows that I'm a daily masturbator. We've talked about it in detail. I air dry my Fleshlight inserts on a towel over a rack in our bathroom. She's seen some of my porn.

Of course my wife knows I jerk off but sites like this and Skype C2C is another matter.
A. Years ago I did invite her to mess about with me on Camfuze. She wasn't interested.
B. She also knows I'm a horny fuck who is also an exhibitionist.
C. We haven't really discussed it but she knows I'm sexual liberal and she more than likely knows I'm bi.
D. She has caught me looking at ChubbyParade, which she laughed off but she would know that I frequent sex community sites.

1 here. She's busted me several times looking at porn. She hates the fact that I like erotica and would rather take matters into my own hands, as it were. But WTF... Sex between us sucks after all these years. So, I'll keep on jackin' and chattin' with you folks and if she doesn't like it... too bad.

Since we haven't had sex in the last 10years, I think she suspects I bate!

Of course she knows and of course I told her I not only did it but I love doing it.

My gf totally knows; I JO with her, cum on her, JO to girls on TV in front of her, JO to porn in front of her. She finds it amusing more than anything.

You need another option: 6. She knows, she likes to watch and sometimes she masturbates with me.

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1. She knows, and I know she knows.

In fact, she encourages it. At the moment, we live in separate cities for work -- about six hours away by car, or two hours by airplane, and we see each other every other weekend. We'll be doing that for at least another year, so our sex life is mainly masturbation, although Skype and cellphones do help.

My sex drive is a little bit higher than hers -- I could go every day, while she could go, oh, twice a week. So even when we were together, I would fill the gaps on my own. But now that we're apart, and we can only get together every 12 days or so, we're both taking matters into our own hands.

One cool thing: Whenever I have to head back to my city after a weekend together, she has no problem letting me pack a pair or two of her worn panties and nylons (and shoes to indulge my foot fetish) in my luggage for J/O inspiration.

She knows it will spice up my jacking sessions, and has jokingly said it keeps me out of trouble considering how many strip clubs there are in my town. She doesn't know that I hang out here on JC, though ... she's a doll, but probably not THAT big of a doll.

#1 ... for over 20 years.


I hope everyone doesn't mind, but I'm going to share my "history" with my wife.

I only post this to encourage other guys, those who think women like this don't exist, to get out there. Don't settle for any woman who doesn't appreciate you as much as you do here. I found such a woman, and we have a killer sex life ... with plenty of masturbation!

In my youth, it was more me.
In our age, it's now her ... including her porn lust.
And she only watches hardcore, not softcore at all.

If your woman won't give you sex, then you should be free to jack off! My wife thinks so too! She will berate any wife who doesn't! She doesn't understand women who pull stupid things out of the idea that "If my man loves me, he'll accept my pouting and buy things, etc..." Don't settle for a woman like that, and enjoy what you need to in order to get you off, if she won't help.

I honestly wish I could "share" my wife, because so many women (and I dated almost 50 before her) are not remotely close. But for some reason, she only feels comfortable with me. Get out there and find someone like her!

And for those who already do ... never take her for granted ... ever! Always make her feel a little special, and she'll always appreciate you.


The 2010s (Married 15-20 years): My wife lost 40lbs., and is lighter than when we were first married.

I suspected my wife was a porn lover, and was regularly watching stuff, especially now that her sex drive was up even more. It was a lot of B movies, and she didn't want to talk about it. I quickly realized she was not only embarrassed, but she feared how I would react.

She was shocked to realize that I knew she was into her "sexual prime" and she couldn't help herself. She went from going 2-to-1 versus me to, now, 3-to-1. She gets off on porn 1, 2 or even 3 times, before I even enter her. And then she usually goes again.

I immediately got undercock dildos and vibrators, and let her explore her FMM fantasies, using them as the 2nd cock as I also fucked her. She was always afraid I'd ask her to reciprocate, but I know she's the best lay I've ever had, and I'd only be disappointed to take another woman. I love her enough to give her a second cock, but she says she never wants a real one. She says no guy has ever made her feel comfortable like me.

That is our life now. In fact, heavy petting while both watching porn is our staple. She just goes more than me, being that we're around 40. When I'm not home, as I travel for work, she usually masturbates 10 times to my 3-night Mon-Tue-Wed routine (saving load Thu-Fri for weekend). I'm not 18 any more and cannot go 2-3 times in a hour, but more like 2-3 times in a weekend.

She's off the pill (over 35 years old), so I usually bust in her mouth when I do go. I can also go a lot longer, slamming her harder than I ever tried as a kid (very open now), so she regularly cums before me, even if it's her 3rd or 4th time. So I get to watch porn while she blows me, although she loves to watch me jack off, or use the Fleshlight.

She has her career, so she doesn't get travel with me but a month or so a year. I hope that changes in the near future, while she's still at a sex drive that is unreal.


The 2000s (Married 5-15 years): I travelled heavy for work, so I couldn't always be home. So porn became a staple. I told her I would do porn, and she gave me full approval, but didn't want to hear about it. Over time I started sharing some erotica with her, because I know she loves to read it. So I'd "enjoy" a babe, and fantasize her being as good as my wife in bed, and re-write the fantasy with my wife as the object.

My wife as at her heaviest this years, almost exactly like Arianna Sinn in top heavy shape, size, tits and hips. She was on the pill (pre-35 year-old) that only swelled her tits another cup during those years. Her hips really came out after age 25.

I used to liken my wife to several pornstars, from almost "gothic" Devyn Devine (a far more "loose" body and not as hot as my wife for her age) to Annie Swanson and others who had similar bodies, but not quite. Once I discovered Arianna Sinn late in the decade, I couldn't stop nutting to her.

Although I started traveling here, my wife either didn't work or did paid research or other things on-line, so she travelled with me for almost half of the years. I must have creampied her in over 100 cities. I filled her pussy thousands of times, her tits and mouth not nearly as much. We worked in porn a few times, but largely for her, not me, as I stayed focused on her.

I cannot lie, I really loved fucking the shit out of her thick, curvy body. Those years, from her mid 20s to mid 30s, where her best. But she couldn't sustain that weight into her late 30s, and dieted. Which launched her sexual drive like I hadn't seen since I dated her. So I didn't masturbate as much.


Mid to late '90s (Engaged to 5 years Married): This was a low period for masturbation for both of us. Although we had some "clockwork" and other issues -- she was experienced, but there were still some "issues" (long story) -- we eventually started fucking like bunnies. But by year 2, with both the physical and emotional issues resolved, I got to unload with her twice a day.

This was before I was traveling, and even better, I got a job only 3 miles from home early into our marriage. So lunch quickies were regular. We fucked like bunnies. She was thickening up to, and I loved it, probably too much (for her long-term health).

But she was still young (under 25), and full of energy. She'd ride better than thinner women I had before. I cannot remember any time in the late '90s where I jacked off, without her in the room. And she always offered her rack, which she knew how to use, or any other orifice.


Dating (mid '90s): As my girlfriend, she used to look at my Playboy and Penthouse magazines. That's when I first suspected she might be almost bi-sexual, as she loves "sticks with tits," but won't "lick carpet."

She watched me jack off to a Playboy model once, Petra Verkiak, knowing how Petra "turned me on to busty brunettes," but that was it with her. She was a bit jealous I could get off, especially in front of her, and it was more of a "dare" and "test" if I would. She knew better than to do that, because I loved her, but I was still honest.

Although it did cause her to want to give me more tit-fucks and head as a result. So it was always my little thing to "guarantee some." I wanted sex 3 times as much as she did, and I even told her when we married, I wanted it twice a day in my youth ... before we got older.

She was so fucking good at it too. She had a number of boyfriends before me, all stupidly dumped her, despite her giving the best head ever, and knowing how to use those tits in combination. To me, her body fucking rocked in lingerie, teddies and corsets especially.

But I guess being an American, "perfect teeth" are expected, and she didn't have them, because she was poor. She also has a smile like Terry Nova, something that is so off-mainstream, but I adore. Of course, I'm a Slavic lover, and my wife's parents are from a nearby country. She was born here, no accent, and this was not long after the end of the Cold War.

Braces a few years into our marriage and now she's the top lust of all my friends. Too bad ... sorry her original teeth bothered you so much. My friends', and all her boyfriends before me, losses.


In fact ...

I quickly learned how "good" some of my divorced friends where, when I was on the road. As I always, it's my wife's call (and I expect her to be responsible). But we both hated it when they'd "come over to see how she's doing" only because they wanted to fuck her, and not be honest about it until my wife finally asked why they were over so much. I cannot believe how many people still think I would travel because we "have issues."

She doesn't want to do anyone, and it's that honest and transparency that I'd let her if she really wanted to. Sadly, some of my friends don't get that, and that's on them. I guess I understand why their marriages failed. They only think of themselves. Don't have an ulterior motive. Be honest so we can all move past it. That's how relationships work. Just like how my wife can enjoy porn, especially with me, and not worry I'll want or even fuck another woman.


I know a lot of you nice guys like me are out there. The type of guy that didn't sleep with a woman when she was inebriated, because you wanted the woman to want you when you were sober. You wanted her to feel comfortable and safe. And maybe you've given a bit too much to women who didn't return it.

Don't do that any longer. Be nice, but move on. Treat every woman like a lady, like you do, and one will notice. And then you will find what you need.

Sorry, didn't mean to write so much.

But in all my time on-line, it still amazes me how many alleged "perverts" I meet who watch porn, who are some ideal husband types that women ignore, and how "sleezy" some of the "gentlemen" I know in real-life are, and divorced for a eason. I guess that's why I like coming on here and chatting. And I love the idea of nice guys getting off as good as I get to, and always have ...

Because we should. We're men and there's nothing wrong with it.

My wife knows. She endorses the practice. We made love last night. Today is a day important to us. I masturbated her to orgasm in bed this morning before we got out of bed. That's my girl.

Waywayway TMI. Shit dude see a therapist...

Fucking Christ I read it again and you gotta get help man..