I posted this to Reddit yesterday in r/jobuds.

I have this idea I think it would be fantastic but I don't know how to get it off the ground. It would be awesome if there was some sort of secret fraternity of guys who like to JO with other guys. We'd have some kind of symbol or phrase, handshake, something that would help other members to identify each other. Maybe a pretty innocuous passphrase with a specific response: Should be something random like, "wow the weather is tea today" in which a recognizing member would say something else that's totally unrelated but would identify themselves to the first speaker as a member of the JO brotherhood. Nonmembers would either ignore it as nonsense or ask what the first person means.
I think some sort of globally agreed upon way to identify other guys who want to have JO buds would be a great way to get past the huge uncertainty we all have wondering if we know any potential bate buds or not.
It would be great also if this expanded to something bigger like local private chapters with meetings (complete with porn and jacking, of course!). Something like what the NY Jacks has done but on a bigger scale and as welcoming and inclusive as possible.
There are already a number of websites for finding a JO buddy and those could be used to kick off the JO brotherhood. Bateworld, Jackinchat, etc. and also on Reddit.
Anybody ever see anything like this already? I'd be grateful to hear what anyone else thinks about it.

There was a comment about a special ring you could wear to identify yourself. I found this: http://qalo.com/products/mens-athletics-silicone-ring-3 it could be unique enough to start a conversation anyway.

What do you guys think?

Count me in. Would love to b a member of a club like this

sounds cool

Link doesn't work for me

I love the idea, it would be nice to know if a guy is interested. A network where you could find local friends would be great.

Fixed that link.

. That ring thing would b perfect. But I think we would need to add something to it like a letter or number. U could even put in on with a marker yourself

Let get this thing Rollin right now On amazon right now . They sell them on amazon. I say we. Write a jc on them. For jackinchat

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that's a great idea. do you have a link for amazon?

just do a search for silicone rings also searched ebay

Cool yeah. I'll post a pic of my hand with one when I get it. So I think the ring is a good idea. Any other ideas? Maybe some sort of flare we can add to any of the various JO Buddy friendly sites we belong to. I'm thinking like some sort of small but very distinct logo you can add to your profile picture you upload wherever you have an account. I'd put one on my profile pic here, xhamster, bateworld, pornhub, twitter, etc.
I'll try to think of some sort of small logo. I need to design a logo for my bate buddy map site anyway.

Thank you.

great idea