Welshbloke said:
shy bladder,, I really envy blokes who can just pull their nob out and let go a stream. When I go for a piss if no one is about and I start I am ok,, if someone comes in before I start I have to pack in and try later, if in a pub and I say I am off for a piss and a mate says he would join me I have to go in the lock up, tried all sorts, mental math etc nothing works for me.
shy bladder,, I really envy blokes who can just pull their nob out and let go a stream. When I go for a piss if no one is about and I start I am ok,, if someone comes in before I start I have to pack in and try later, if in a pub and I say I am off for a piss and a mate says he would join me I have to go in the lock up, tried all sorts, mental math etc nothing works for me.
Yeh I hear u welsh. once u start its ok. but if something happens before that just ceases up. its weird cause i dont care guys see my dick. Im quite comfortable to go naked in showers in gym change rooms etc where other guys do contortions to get changed under a towel.
I looked up aboutit on web once. most go for a gradual re exposure therapy to slowly get used to it. easier said than done i reckon. another is to hold your breath for as long as possible. (a bit dangerous) but apparently there is an inevitability that you will pee the more u need to breath. tho i dont fancy passing out and ending up face down in the trough!
at least nice to know there other fellas out there in same boat.