Yeah, that's how my wife treated it. Just like it was totally normal (and I guess it is) and no big deal at all. Treated it like I told her that I used to have a red bicycle.

Actually it is totally normal, and girls do it too. My wife told me she used to play with a friend of hers. Funny thing is, they are still friends and when I see the woman I can't help but think of them together.

So hearing this would really turn you on? Love to hear your thoughts on this

Nope and don't plan too.

I am sure girls do the same as guys growing up compare etc ? any one else have any stories ? .

Yes absolutely. But I'm not like most women. I'm very open minded sexually and I am aroused by taboo topics. You know your wife and what she likes/dislikes. If she has a lot of limitations she might not enjoy this type of information. If she doesn't have a lot of boundaries this might drive her wild.

I like bisexual men who experiment and get kinkier the hornier they get. That's a huge turn on for me but not for everyone.

Oh it is absolutely a normal part of life. Most people with whom I have spoken to have had similar experiences.

Honestly, I didn't expect a positive reaction from my wife and that is why I had hidden it from her for years. Something came along that gave me an opportunity to tell her and I did. Clearly I'd had nothing to fear because she treated it as "Ho hum, big deal". She herself claimed never to have done anything like that but she knew lots who had and, being a nurse, knew it was normal.

She certainly wasn't turned on by it at all though. Just a nonevent really.

I have enjoyed recounting my stories before and I was somewhat hoping that she would have the reaction that some of my female friends have had (and that, from your statement, you might have) to those stories. It does not appear that my wife will have such a reaction.

i was in my 20's not my teens when i first did it, and i've only brought it up with one partner. we were confessing dirtiest secrets, and i decided to lay it all on the table. admitted to being sucked and jacked off by guys, and instead of being mortified she got aroused by it. so that was a nice surprise. and then she confessed to spending a year or so in her 20's only eating pussies and having her pussy eaten by other girls. had a pretty glorious orgasm after that conversation.

That's a great response from her.

I actually ended mine in my 20s. Not from a lack of interest but my jacking buddy went one way in life and I went another. I did reconnect with him on Facebook a bit but nothing has been said about that subject (and probably will not be).

I jut wanted to add that I really appreciate a discussion on this little talked about topic being started.

I also really appreciate so many other guys opening up about their experiences sexually experimenting in youth - and also appreciate @ohlala84 being so positive about it, it's great hearing that from a woman!

The reason I say that is a while ago I opened up to my girlfriend about my being bisexual, and about my experiences with another guy the same age when I was younger, and experiences when I was an adult too. I very quickly stopped talking about it further as her reaction was very, very negative. In some ways I am so glad I opened up to her, as it was a huge weight off my shoulders and honesty is always better, but in other ways I really regretted it. Now talking about anything to do with sexuality is a big awkward no-no, and she made it very clear she does not approve of bisexuality, and, unlike other people mentioned in this thread, the idea of two guys masturbating is definitely not a turn on for her.

I do think guys experimenting with each other is a really common thing to happen, and think it needs to be talked about more openly and with less shame (hence really appreciating seeing this thread). I would just love to be with someone who accepted it as part of who I am - and part of many guys' experiences - and ideally was also really turned on by it.

ever think to have him over and ask her to join you both...so she can have that experience?

When I told my wife, she seemed a bit intriged but mostly humorous. The concept was completely unheard of to her so I opened her eyes a bit. My wife also loves DP with my self and a toy, I'm looking to upgrade that toy to a jackin buddy. The only issue is she is private so it would require trust and a friendship before that happens. In a perfect world, I'd have a JO buddy first and when he's around long enough to build a friendship, we all get rewarded, lol. Or maybe there's another married man with the same issue?

When we first started dating my wife wanted to know if I was ever attracted to the same sex and I told her that as young teens a few kids from the 'hood would show each other our cocks and share jerk off techniques but that was about it. I think she was hoping to hear a little more. And then of course I asked the same of her. She confessed that even though she had had several boyfriends in high school, that when a girlfriend and she graduated and decided to travel Europe for the summer, it turns out the GF was bi and they got it on together and in threesomes all over Europe for like 3-4 months. She had another fling a couple summers ago with a much younger woman but she won't talk about it.

I've told Lydia about my masturbation exploits with my old buddy Bill. It turned her on big time.