Morning guys,

Anybody on the website fabswingers or it's sister site fabguys? I just wonder if anyone has any success on it. Mail me here or get me on Kik thewanker40

Cheers

Am on fabguys, met numerous guys on there and had some really good meets

Yup

Used to whore myself on fabguys when i lived alone. 20% genuine guys who will turn up. 80% timewasters

I'm on both but never seem to see anyone like-minded who lives close enough to consider meeting them.

Most guys who are looking to meet other guys want to suck, rim or fuck. I'm not going to get into sucking with a stranger and have no interest in rimming or anal, from either perspective.

Guys who just want to stroke and spunk are difficult to find.

Site is a total waste of time (fab swingers).

I spent weeks sending long personal emails to couples and (unlikely) to ladies, but only if I matched what they were looking for - barely any responded. Those that did wanted something different such as me getting involved with other men at their party. Not for me unfortunately.

I actually had a really good chat online with a lady that had a good 15 reviews asking her why I wasn't getting anywhere with it. In short - basically you have to go to a swingers party first, get to know them face to face and then you're in the clique group. It's basically an large inner circle of people who know and shag each other - only the very exceptional (i.e. perfect mega ripped gym bodies for guys) get any sort of look in as there is so much competition. Even being mega ripped doesn't guarantee anything.

Same as above for fabguys - thought it would be a good place to find wank only mates. Site is pretty much proper gay guys who say they will wank with you watching porn and then it turns out they want more ("we could try..." - er no. no we won't). I just don't trust it and not worth putting my life at risk tbh.

I know I shouldn't but stuck a fake female profile up to see what it's like on the other side. Within minutes of opening an account I was flooded by men asking for sex. Literally anyone that saw the account sent me one liners, phone numbers, a few did the old copy paste generic long message stuff. I left it a few days, didn't respond back to anyone (why would I?) and when I logged on I had hundreds of unanswered messages - mostly crappy "wanna hookup now babe?" stuff.

So yer - if you want to swing properly go to one of their events first as it's the only way the break into the sex world. This is how they tell who the newbies and chancers are (and there are LOTS) - because they've never seen or talked to you before hence you're another horny guy looking for a cheap shag. Never going to happen.