i've been trying for awhile to get better at this and from time to time, i manage to last for an hour or so at best. i really want to kind of experience this to a more intense level and even though i frequently go into a j/o session with the intention of at least trying my best to edge but usually find myself giving in and cumming after maybe 10-20 minutes.

has anyone else gone through the same thing and what do you think are some ways to get better at this when you just love the feeling of cumming way too much? thanks

well, for me I prefer to edge for at least an hour, I stay away from hard core porn, mostly sexy NN teens and such, maybe some online chatting,(less hands on me for typing), I also like using poppers, which for me can keep me going awhile, sometimes I just get up and walk away from the stimulation for a short time, maybe a coffee or something like that. Cant give in though....LMOA!~ hope this helps some!~

after 2-3 hours i sink into this horny daze that can last up to 8-10 hours sometimes longer. staying in that horny as fuck phase is where i like to be. making stooopid faces, moaning, groaning in horny pleasure, spewing precum the whole time. unable to do basic task even if i tried around the house. losing all sense of time until i allow myself to cum and snap out of it. I can totally understand you wanting to experience this level of horniness. don't think about the time and just enjoy yourself. practice. the benefits of edging are of unspeakable horniness. good luck.

well said!

I would work my way up to longer sessions, 5 or 10 mins longer than the last. The point about hard core porn is well taken. Start wit the porn you find mildly arousing until you are at your release point and watching the best porn. Last well said about getting into the edging zone. Nothing gets done when I'm like that except moan, hump the air a lot and run out of lube.

i don't edge well, i cum fast.. wish i had the will power to edge for a long time

For me there times I can edge for hours or days, just enjoy that feeling of almost cumming, other times I just jerk off fast and cum right away, either way I love having my cock in my hand!

I was taught a Tantric method. You masturbate to the point of orgasm then stop (before the orgasm happens - go as close as you dare). Then calm down for a minute and repeat. Do this for a long as you can. Gradually the time you can spend in the pre-orgasmic plateau will extend. Once you have mastered the technique you will be able to hold yourself there for as long as you like and have multiple "dry" orgasms.

Shall we call it "Tantric Edging"?
I do that a lot when I just want to feel the orgasm
without shooting my load.
If I beat off every night, it doesn't feel as
pleasing to me.
But whenever I go into days or weeks of abstinence
I wait until I've reached the end of my time
in abstinence and then I slowly touch myself,
and that is when I like to edge and hold my orgasm
for a while; and It Feels INTENSE!

BTW, at that time, while I'm edging, I put on some
mild "Tease and Denial" porn videos... I edit the
videos to loop during the moment when a guy is teasing
his wife's pussy with his cock-- not sticking it in,
but barely touching or flicking her clit
with the tip of his cock head... watching that
video-loop makes me goon while I'm edging to it!

when you masturbate do what pleases you.I used edging from the first time I started wanking.it is a means of prolonging the wank.do what you want,if you want to come quickly go ahead,if you want to extend the pleasure of masturbation edge.practice makes perfect.

I'm "edging" now. Been watching porn off and on all day. (some gay). I like to go to bed "horny", It helps me not to worry about the days problems. I wake up with a hard cock, thats cool. Most times I jerk it off, some times my wife takes care of it but every now and then......I have a gay neighbor...

I have a inability to edge as well & rarely produce precum. I don't wanna edge for ten hours but 1 or 2 hours on occasion before cumming would be nice . I just don't have the patience & decipline to put in that kinda time .

Well, my move into edging was helped once I got over the feeling that I needed to stay rock hard 100% of the time. Playing with yourself for a long time can put a lot of demand on your pelvic muscles. Relax, go semi if need be. Have your meat lightly greased and just enjoy the sensations. You will eventually learn what it takes to harden you up with much less effort.

edging is very frustraing and unsatisfying for the naked masculine body. When you practice edging with parttial ejaculation , you need much practice to overcome the urge . it is the most difficult aspect of edging to avoid ejaculation ( with orgasm ). The totally naked masculine body must learn to experience the opening of the prostate valve and the sperm fluids moving up the uretra to the glans. It is very frustrating to experinece the last ejaculation after 35 ejaculations , because the glands are empty and exhausted.

Maybe you just don't enjoy edging and prefer to cum? It's OK, there's no rule that says you have to be an edger.

An hour is a pretty respectable amount of time to be wanking IMO. I think the average sex act between 2 adults is about 15 minutes.

I learned to edge pretty much when I was learning to masturbate. I reckon it's just a personal preference. I don't like getting a backrub but some people love getting a massage.