This is a question for those who got into threesomes later in their married life: Was it a case of once kids moved out and there was more freedom, that your partner was more open to explore those sorts of activities?

we had did that , we had the kid s by a sitter over the week end ,, and had the house for some hot time s ,, invited a good friend to come over , and over some drink s got all the thing s covered ,, lasted over three year s ,,, the wife just love it , two men to give her so much sex, ,,

That sounds like a good set up. A regular guy just for fun when you feel the urge for an extra.

Spoken to a few now and it appears it does get easier.
I want to add a further question to it: Was the interest in having a threesome always there for your partner or did it start to appear more once the freedom was there?

Anyone else got any experiences relating to this. My wife has mentioned that with our kids being older and our youngest one about to start uni and getting her license, our opportunities to get away, just as a couple, for a weekend here and there should increase. I am seeing that obviously with that, the opportunities to explore things like the threesomes etc should also increase.

No experience but on my bucket list.sadly no interest from the S.O. I find the possibility of being part of a tag team very arousing.

We started ro explore this a little later in life. I think that the older you get, the more comfortable you also get with yourself. My wife would never had Done it when we were younger. We only had two threesomes so far though, with a younger girl and she loved it. So next we are going to find another man

My wife know seeing her with another man is my #1 sexual bucket list item. She admits she is curious what it would be like with someone else, but she won't take it past a fantasy. I've even told her I don't have to be there if she'd feel more comfortable that way as long as she told me about it. She did say she would rather I not watch as she wouldn't be able to focus on him if I were watching.

I really hope some day she tells me those magic words, "I wanna fuck this guy I met". I'll probably cum in my pants.

I was involved with another couple when I was in my late 20's for 3sms. The couple were not married but they had a child tougher. we only had our hookups on weekends or Friday nights when the child was away at friends house. the last time I met up with the couple the other man watched because he enjoyed watching more then joining in.

It's funny how different people can be. When we have spoken about it, my wife has always said that part of the arousal for her would be knowing I was there watching her experiencing another man, but also having me there to be involved in it.

I think it is also partly so she feels a little more comfortable getting naked with another guy.

My wife likes seeing my reaction to her with others. I love when other men or women bring her to orgasm, and she obviously loves coming but she has said she loves watching my expression when she does. For me, it's like watching a porno starring someone I know.

As far as us getting started in threesomes, we have had a very open dialogue about sex and our fantasies and fetishes since our dating days. When we realized we were both interested in opening our bedroom to others, we had a long conversation and decided we'd try it out. It worked for us, and so whenever the stars aligned for us to make it happen, we do.

It's not essential for us to have others in bed with us *every time* -- because we have a great sex life together, just the two of us -- but when we want to go crazy, like on vacation, we will. We've arranged maybe 20 threesomes on our own, probably 60/40 men vs. women. (And, yes, I play with the guys as often as she plays with the women ... we also discovered we both have a mild bisexual side.)

We started swinging when we were 35, kids 5 and 7, we were in a nudist club where their was a lot of opertunity's as we got older and had left the nudist club we got more into M F M threesoms, it got easer as the kids got older and left home, we were players up to our early 70's.
A lot of good fun was had by all I can tell you.

I've never had a threesome but always had a fantasy about one with a white girl and a black girl early to mid twenties big tits hope I can try to make it come true after covid19