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imark Amateur Jackinchatter

203 posts since 2010-11-18
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Do you ever tell your wife or GF i need to jack and just start doing it? I have done that a few times with my wife and it is kind of hot to slide down your pants and start jacking as she watches. I wonder for how many guys this is a regular thing?
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1988 posts since 2014-06-09
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Absolutely, I do. She does. We do. It's a great way to get things started. I love to look at my wife as jacking inspiration, and if she wants to play, she either starts masturbating as well or we get down to business.

Of course, we have the kind of relationship that we can borrow each other's bodies if we just need a quick one-and-done, and think nothing of it. She's asked for my hand on her tits or for me to play with her ass while she fingers herself. In return, I've asked her to play with my balls or rub her pretty feet on my cock while I jerk off.

We do it, we get it over and we carry on with our lives. No stress, no obligation to be into it if we're not in the mood. Which does happen after 24 years of marriage from time to time. But usually not!
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The couple times I have done that, I would get beyond the 3rd or 4th stroke, before she would tell me she wanted to do that for me. She liked it in her mouth, in her pussy, on her tits or just in her hand where she could like it up.
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No, but it sounds like a plan and maybe I'll start. What my wife and I have started to do more often and it's becoming a normal thing for us, is to masturbate ourself next to each other. We are 68 and 65 yrs old and traditional sex has pretty much taking a back seat to mutual and self masturbation. Has everyone knows on this site making oneself feel good is great. We have never talked to each other about our sexual masturbating habits. Pretty sure she knows I love to jack off, but doesn't talk about it. Not sure how much she might do it on her own.
But what I do know is she is good at having many, many orgasms. I love to lay next to her stroking my cock and watching rub her pussy. She really has some intense orgasms. Once she gets going and has has at least 3 or 4 orgasms, I'll join in and give her on with my fingers. It is much easier for me once she gets going.
I like laying there stroking my cock while laying next to her and watching. After awhile she'll turn on her side and play with my very sensitive cock my now. After a little while I'll masturbate my cock to completion while she plays with my balls.
We both have some very intense orgasms this way. I love it.
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179 posts since 2017-06-22
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Yep, when she didn't feel like Fukn Id tell her Im going in the bathroom and jack one out, I kept porn mags in there just for that.
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2099 posts since 2015-06-14
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About a week ago I slipped into the bathroom naked while my wife was in the shower. I was stroking a stiff, morning wood hard-on and watching her lather herself up was really hot! She noticed me standing there and opened the door so I could see her more clearly. She picked up her razor and shaved her pussy which drove me over the edge and I blew my load onto her feet while she watched. Smiles all around...
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imark Amateur Jackinchatter

203 posts since 2010-11-18
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Dman said:
About a week ago I slipped into the bathroom naked while my wife was in the shower. I was stroking a stiff, morning wood hard-on and watching her lather herself up was really hot! She noticed me standing there and opened the door so I could see her more clearly. She picked up her razor and shaved her pussy which drove me over the edge and I blew my load onto her feet while she watched. Smiles all around...
That is a fucking hot story! Thanks!
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1088 posts since 2015-04-17
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I always have. If I am having sex with someone on a regular basis, especially if we are living together, then it's a given that if I feel like jacking off, then I am going to do it with them there. No matter if it is because I'm horny and they are not in the mood for sex, or sometimes, as much as I love sex, I still just enjoy jacking off sometimes, no matter mow much pussy and blow jobs I am getting, I still love jacking off too. Even better when they masturbate with me.
Sometimes I want an orgasm and would love to have sex, but am too exhausted from work or whatever for the physical exertion of putting my whole body into fucking, so if she isn't wanting to hop on top and do all the work of riding my cock, then I will just jack off.
One of my girlfriends hated that I jacked off, especially with her there. Another viewed masturbation as cheating and said she masturbates, but not while in a relationship. I was able to bring her out of that after a short while.
Most of my girlfriends have not only been fine with it and enjoy it, but are really into it and turned on by it and also often masturbate with me.
I also enjoy having a few female friends who I masturbate with. Usually one of us will call the other if we're horny and want to play and we'll meet at their house or they come to mine and play together, but sometimes we may just be hanging out spending time together like friends do, just watching TV or whatever and one or both of us decides we want to get off and we'll start masturbating.
I have one friend who has never masturbated with me and we've never had sex together, but she is comfortable with me masturbating inn front of her when we are together. It started while we were sitting on the couch together watching a movie and a hot scene came on. She said "I bet that got you horny". I confessed that it did. She laughed and said "yeah, I know that scene does that to most guys" and then said that it was okay with her if I wanted to jack off. I was a bit surprised, but took her up on it. It is a bit different. Most girls I masturbate in front of are my masturbation buddies who masturbate with me, or girls I am having sex with, dating or in a relationship with. This one doesn't masturbate with me. She never gets naked. Sometimes she will strip down to T-shirt and panties if we're hanging out and lounging around for a long period of time or watching movies together to get comfortable. But we are good friends and she is comfortable with me doing that in front of her and I am comfortable doing it with her there. It's just cool to be so casual with her that if we are cuddled up watching TV and I feel like pulling my cock out and jacking off, then I just do it.
My ex-wife was awesome. She was caught masturbating by her parents and taught that it was wrong, but I quickly brought her out of that. She was turned on watching me jack off and after a short time she was masturbating with me all the time and also by herself. Masturbation was a big part of our sex life as well as sharing our fantasies with each other as we did it. She'd walk in from work to find me jacking off and ask me who I was thinking about. I could tell her I was thinking about fucking her best friend, a girl I worked with or whoever. I never had to hide anything with her. She would either tell me to enjoy if she had things to do or she would sit or lay down with me and ask me to tell her more as she kissed my neck and chest or started masturbating herself.
So yeah, when I am with a girl I am having sex with, especially in a committed relationship with she is going to see me jack off quite often. In fact, it is one thing I discuss early on during dating if it looks like things are getting serious and we haven't had sex yet or we are about to or start having sex or talk about committing. I let them know that I love to jack off, love porn magazines, videos, fantasize about other women, have phone sex, webcam sex, etc. and that I do sexting, phone sex and webcam sometimes with girls I know personally. I am not giving any of that up.
Only thing that stops when I am in a committed relationship is masturbating with other girls in person, but they are still friends I hang out with. So they know up front. I don't hide anything and if they feel it's a problem then they don't have to commit. And if they don't want me jacking off in front of them then they definitely should not commit to me. lol
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I think that is crazy hot. Catching a guy jerking makes me go nuts in a
Good way. I can't way to have a guy tell me he has to jerk
Off and. Just Do it.
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1088 posts since 2015-04-17
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Pervette4 said:
I think that is crazy hot. Catching a guy jerking makes me go nuts in a
Good way. I can't way to have a guy tell me he has to jerk
Off and. Just Do it.

It's hot when a girl is okay with jacking off in front of her. It's even hotter when she is turned on by it and really into watching. I would love to pull it out and stroke it in front of you while you watch and maybe join in.
Love stroking with the women in person, on the phone or on webcam.
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MWMJacker Amateur Jackinchatter

415 posts since 2014-07-09
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Wife and I use to Jack and Jill in front of each other all the time. Things have slowed up to a sudden stop now I just jack as needed. Don't know why she isn't into sex at all anymore.
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194 posts since 2017-06-12
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My wife and I are the exact same way, she understands the need to let the poison out as do I.

FLscribe said:
Absolutely, I do. She does. We do. It's a great way to get things started. I love to look at my wife as jacking inspiration, and if she wants to play, she either starts masturbating as well or we get down to business.

Of course, we have the kind of relationship that we can borrow each other's bodies if we just need a quick one-and-done, and think nothing of it. She's asked for my hand on her tits or for me to play with her ass while she fingers herself. In return, I've asked her to play with my balls or rub her pretty feet on my cock while I jerk off.

We do it, we get it over and we carry on with our lives. No stress, no obligation to be into it if we're not in the mood. Which does happen after 24 years of marriage from time to time. But usually not!
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If I really have the urge to masturbate, I just tell my wife I'm going to jerk off and head to the bedroom. Most she'll say is "have fun".
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I remember one night I was horny as hell, she was on the phone with her cousin. I would rub her boobs and ass, whisper get off the phone so we can fuck. She kept talking and ignoring me. I said hell if you ain't getting off the phone I'm gonna jack off. She said go ahead and Jack off, I will watch. I said get off the phone and I will. She giggled said I tell Amber about our sex life babe. I said fuck it I got naked laid on my back started stroking. She put the phone on speaker phone, I heard Amber say you better cum on her pussy and lick it up, like the other night. My Wife Jess grinned said we talk about everything. I started back stroking, she started rubbing her toes on my cock head, she says oh God Amber he is flowing precum already he has covered my toes. Amber is moaning suck that precum off her toes lick em clean. Amber then says wish you was sucking a cock for us. Then my wife said I'm gonna get the laptop Amber we can video chat, I'm gonna text Lindsey see if she wants to join the video chat. I said Lindsey who? She said your distant kin Lindsey. I guess I looked puzzled, Amber blurted out look Dave, we don't have kinky freaky husband's so we enjoy when your wife tells about how freaky you are and what all y'all do. She gets the laptop setup, and on the screen I see her cousin Amber, she is a little chunky nice tits, she is naked, playing with herself. And there is my distant cousin Lindsey with just panties on, she is hott, tall, tan, black hair, big tits. Lindsey says god this is so much better than the pictures you send. Amber moans out get back to stroking that cock Dave! My wife is now rubbing my balls and asshole, I look and Lindsey is now naked also, she sees me looking. You want to come lick on my pussy while my hubby fucks it? God yes!!!! About that time I start moaning I'm about to cum, Jess said get over here, cum on my pussy and this vibrator. I shoot a huge load, Amber is orgasming fuck yes cum for momma. Lindsey said oh God Jess please let him suck that cock and lick your pussy clean I'm so ready to explode. Jess pulled my head down I took the vibrator into my mouth and then licked her pussy clean.
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437 posts since 2016-09-29
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Hot4Anything69 said:
She put the phone on speaker phone, I heard Amber say you better cum on her pussy and lick it up, like the other night. My Wife Jess grinned said we talk about everything. I started back stroking, she started rubbing her toes on my cock head, she says oh God Amber he is flowing precum already he has covered my toes. Amber is moaning suck that precum off her toes lick em clean. Amber then says wish you was sucking a cock for us.


Gawd! That's hot!
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