too bad you capped at 65. im 66

anxiety

It can be difficult to find a jack friend,
but when you do find a buddy it happens
and it's awesome.

That form of male bonding means Everything.
It doesn't have to be Lovey-Dovey,
and it doesn't have to be strictly Stranger-like.
You both can do it and part ways; or perhaps
a lasting friendship will come of it.
Through it all, remain Discrete.

If you're jacking with a long-time friend,
that friendship must be treated with greater
respect and trust now more than ever.

Trust your buddy as you'd like him to trust You.

Communication is key. That means being honest
in your intentions and laying all your cards
out on the table.
No one likes an unwelcome surprise.

If boundaries are explained and set,
by all means stick to them.

Maintain mutual respect for one another.
Do not hint or suggest anything other than what
was agreed upon. That's hard to do.
If one guy wants to try something different,
approach it with respect.
If No means NO, it commands Respect.

Discretion is also important.
What happens inside the privacy of your room
or his really should Stay there.
It's embarrassing when a friend happens to find
you on Facebook and sees you've blogged about
your jack session with your online jack friends.
As much as I like to crack gay jokes in my
Facebook posts and memes, I never discuss my
private sex life on my FB timeline.

I can't think what else to add to this, for now.

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slimdickins mentioned "anxiety",
and he nailed it right on point.

Anxiety will kill or ruin any JO Get-Together.
Let's say I invite a guy over for a JO session,
if he happens to be better-equipped than I am
then of course I might feel somewhat "lesser"...

...but rather than let it bother me, I take it
as a compliment and as an encouragement.
I love to watch another guy's cock do its thing
while I JO with him; the visual gets me excited!
And I verbally communicate that to the guy,
because it's nice to hear that you've impressed
your buddy that way.

I have often experienced performance anxiety
during a buddy-JO session. It's embarrassing.
THIS... is also a good reason Why I practice
Abstinence from time to time.......
(Some of y'all are saying "oh now here he goes
again with that Abstinence crap").....
The longer I hold my load, the hornier and more
harder I get when the time finally comes for me
to perform at my best; and then I would be the one
to make a good impression on my buddy, and I
didn't have to use a pill that time!

If you're feeling anxiety, don't let it bother you.
On the contrary, use it as a Tool to build you up.
Use my example as an idea to help you cope with
performance issues.

Cocks have feelings, too! lol
If you abusively scold your dog, over time
it starts to lose respect for you and won't respond
to your commands, right?
Would you treat your cock the same way?
Don't just jack to Beat the physical crap
out of your cock, or to just "get it over with"
... Treat your cock Sensually and Worship it
with lotsa TLC, and it will respond to you
as you please.
Treat your buddy's cock in the same sensual manner.
A light touch can take you and your cock
a very long way.